Met a beautiful woman a few years back from another country. It turned out that she had an ex from not far from where I live.
We married in her country but she always kept in touch with her ex. We both agreed to cut off all exes etc...
I managed to get her into my country (really hard work!) and all was well...
We've been here a couple of years now.
The ex still reappears occasionally. I've had all of the 'in love with two men' etc etc crap in the past but I thought it had been resolved.
A few months ago I looked at her phone and saw she had texted a friend, asking them to lie about where she was if I asked.
I confronted her, she lied.
I showed her the evidence, she said her ex needed to talk to her and was confused... She went to see him after the friend.
She has had an abusive relationship in the past and has always picked awful, lying guys - think snakes.
a couple of months ago she told me that the ex creature was outside our home playing loud music and she had told him to go away...
Recently, nothing I do is good enough. I look gay, walk gay, act gay, I'm lazy, do nothing, am a loser, ugly and apparently urinate down my leg(!)
For the record, I'm a decent looking guy and she's a decent looking woman.
I will say that she told me the jealous ex would say I looked gay etc though. He certainly does.
This was immediately before she went to visit a friend at the other end of the country for a weekend. That part at least was ok but in the back of my mind, I knew she could have gone somewhere else.
She no longer cooks, cleans, does dishes and is slow with washing etc.
It's all left to me.
I've hardly eaten in months which she says makes me unnattractive.
Phew.
After the far off visit, she started having girl nights.3 weeks back, she went overnight, the same city where her ex lives, with the girls.
She's done this a few times now, including mid-week.
Before she went to visit the friend, we had been together every single night apart from a couple of years back when she had gone and cheated on me for no reason. Apparently to make sure we couldn't be together etc etc.
She came back.
I figured out how to track iPhones.
A couple of times ago she said some guy had invited her to a restaurant at a hotel and, out of interest, wanted to know about the hotel...
A week ago she took a new job and had to go to that city for training.
She said she would call me when the training was over.
No call.
Her emails showed it finished at mid-day.
I tracked her.
She was at the same place as that hotel, then she went back to the place where she said her 'friend' that is a girl lives. Took me a long time to get a fake name out of her.
She texted, said she would be better staying overnight for more training the next day and I wasn't to think anything was wrong...
:rofl:
This weekend, she was going away with a girl she knows to her vilage. She went there last weekend and tracking confirmed.
I watched with interest as the car went down a different road to that city.
I called her when she got there.
Asked her where she was...
In the village.
Actually at the same address as the last couple of dodgy times.
Still not back.
I've paid a crap load of money for her next visa which we sent off a week ago.
Past few days before leaving - doesn't want to see me, hear me, I am to leave the room, not to talk to her because it makes her suicidal etc etc...
She went and spent a ton of cash on new clothes which she showed to me - panties and stuff.
Even changed her hair colour the day before, then changed it back!
It gets better.
We thought we had Candida (thrush) due to symptoms and neither of us had cheated but... I'm thinking something worse now. The clap or something.
I never have enough cash for what she wants and she threatens to find it otherwise.
Last couple of weeks - no sex. Since the candida actually...
She dropped her treatment and failed to buy another...
After I first met her, she accused me of giving her some small STI - trachy something I think. A bacteria.
I wonder if she has it again now or something worse.
I'll definitely go and get checked ASAP anyway.
Don't laugh, but the night before she left, she was very tired so set me to looking for a job for her...
She kept saying it should be in that city because she likes it there.
She wants to go to University again but it should be there, because she likes it there...
I saw her looking for a flat in the area of the city she was in a week before on the net.
She said it was for her girl-friend...
I've had little contact from her until now, apart from a couple of stupid messages on facebook asking how I was, which I've ignored.
She really was the love of my life, in my opinion, and I'm not sure about what I should do next.
I could pick up some dirty in a couple of hours, just like any other guy, but I don't see the point.
What an idiot she is / thinks I am - wouldn't take 5 minutes to get deported if I was that way inclined.
If I'm nice to her, she goes mad and tries to destroy me with words. Last week - wanted an open relationship or for me to cheat so that she 'would want me again'. Probably so that I could pick up that STI...
I tried giving her the quiet treatment, ignoring her.
She went crazy. Shouting at me to pay for something, pulling my hair, kept trying to hug me and pull my phone off me.
It's easy for some guy to wait in the background for a real man to fix all of life's problems, then pay a few hundred $ to snare her when I'm down many thousands...
If I try to talk, she doesn't want to hear it.
Recent events - She loves me but isn't in love with me, and wants me as a friend. More recent - Doesn't know what she wants, confused in her life, needs space.
I had that before she left last.
I walked out then because she told me she enjoyed sex with the guy she cheated on me with a few years back.
I get a texted apology - sorry for everything.
Mad.
Thoughts..?
We married in her country but she always kept in touch with her ex. We both agreed to cut off all exes etc...
I managed to get her into my country (really hard work!) and all was well...
We've been here a couple of years now.
The ex still reappears occasionally. I've had all of the 'in love with two men' etc etc crap in the past but I thought it had been resolved.
A few months ago I looked at her phone and saw she had texted a friend, asking them to lie about where she was if I asked.
I confronted her, she lied.
I showed her the evidence, she said her ex needed to talk to her and was confused... She went to see him after the friend.
She has had an abusive relationship in the past and has always picked awful, lying guys - think snakes.
a couple of months ago she told me that the ex creature was outside our home playing loud music and she had told him to go away...
Recently, nothing I do is good enough. I look gay, walk gay, act gay, I'm lazy, do nothing, am a loser, ugly and apparently urinate down my leg(!)
For the record, I'm a decent looking guy and she's a decent looking woman.
I will say that she told me the jealous ex would say I looked gay etc though. He certainly does.
This was immediately before she went to visit a friend at the other end of the country for a weekend. That part at least was ok but in the back of my mind, I knew she could have gone somewhere else.
She no longer cooks, cleans, does dishes and is slow with washing etc.
It's all left to me.
I've hardly eaten in months which she says makes me unnattractive.
Phew.
After the far off visit, she started having girl nights.3 weeks back, she went overnight, the same city where her ex lives, with the girls.
She's done this a few times now, including mid-week.
Before she went to visit the friend, we had been together every single night apart from a couple of years back when she had gone and cheated on me for no reason. Apparently to make sure we couldn't be together etc etc.
She came back.
I figured out how to track iPhones.
A couple of times ago she said some guy had invited her to a restaurant at a hotel and, out of interest, wanted to know about the hotel...
A week ago she took a new job and had to go to that city for training.
She said she would call me when the training was over.
No call.
Her emails showed it finished at mid-day.
I tracked her.
She was at the same place as that hotel, then she went back to the place where she said her 'friend' that is a girl lives. Took me a long time to get a fake name out of her.
She texted, said she would be better staying overnight for more training the next day and I wasn't to think anything was wrong...
:rofl:
This weekend, she was going away with a girl she knows to her vilage. She went there last weekend and tracking confirmed.
I watched with interest as the car went down a different road to that city.
I called her when she got there.
Asked her where she was...
In the village.
Actually at the same address as the last couple of dodgy times.
Still not back.
I've paid a crap load of money for her next visa which we sent off a week ago.
Past few days before leaving - doesn't want to see me, hear me, I am to leave the room, not to talk to her because it makes her suicidal etc etc...
She went and spent a ton of cash on new clothes which she showed to me - panties and stuff.
Even changed her hair colour the day before, then changed it back!
It gets better.
We thought we had Candida (thrush) due to symptoms and neither of us had cheated but... I'm thinking something worse now. The clap or something.
I never have enough cash for what she wants and she threatens to find it otherwise.
Last couple of weeks - no sex. Since the candida actually...
She dropped her treatment and failed to buy another...
After I first met her, she accused me of giving her some small STI - trachy something I think. A bacteria.
I wonder if she has it again now or something worse.
I'll definitely go and get checked ASAP anyway.
Don't laugh, but the night before she left, she was very tired so set me to looking for a job for her...
She kept saying it should be in that city because she likes it there.
She wants to go to University again but it should be there, because she likes it there...
I saw her looking for a flat in the area of the city she was in a week before on the net.
She said it was for her girl-friend...
I've had little contact from her until now, apart from a couple of stupid messages on facebook asking how I was, which I've ignored.
She really was the love of my life, in my opinion, and I'm not sure about what I should do next.
I could pick up some dirty in a couple of hours, just like any other guy, but I don't see the point.
What an idiot she is / thinks I am - wouldn't take 5 minutes to get deported if I was that way inclined.
If I'm nice to her, she goes mad and tries to destroy me with words. Last week - wanted an open relationship or for me to cheat so that she 'would want me again'. Probably so that I could pick up that STI...
I tried giving her the quiet treatment, ignoring her.
She went crazy. Shouting at me to pay for something, pulling my hair, kept trying to hug me and pull my phone off me.
It's easy for some guy to wait in the background for a real man to fix all of life's problems, then pay a few hundred $ to snare her when I'm down many thousands...
If I try to talk, she doesn't want to hear it.
Recent events - She loves me but isn't in love with me, and wants me as a friend. More recent - Doesn't know what she wants, confused in her life, needs space.
I had that before she left last.
I walked out then because she told me she enjoyed sex with the guy she cheated on me with a few years back.
I get a texted apology - sorry for everything.
Mad.
Thoughts..?
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