I know I have posted before about doing the 180 and I truly mean to. But then I slip and ask her to talk which leads me to bring up things that I dont have the right too.. Her possibly seeing someone else, where she is etc.. I know that we are seperated and that she needs to do whatever to find out what she feels is missing, but I just cant let go. I finally told her yesterday that I had been monitoringher FB messages since January. I told her I did it to try and gauge her honesty to me in which she has failed many times. I told her that I had seen her talking to OM even when she said she was not. She also was very sexual with another male who lives out of state. I told her that I am considering telling that guys fiance what he has been doing. but I probably wont. Needless to say she couldnt believe that I was doing that but I told her oh well, if you werent doing anything you shouldnt then it shouldnt have been a problem. I am glad I told her because n ow I wont kill myself seeing the messages. I really want to do the 180 but cant seem to help wanting to talk about issues with her. We are both in IC with same counselor and sometimes do Joint meetings. I see her frequently with kid exchanges, sports etc.. and we do text sometimes trying to be civil. I was just curiuos how many have started the 180 then regressed only to start again?
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