My wife and I have been together for 22 years, and are very happy with a pretty good sex life (5x+/- a week).
My question is: how can I get her to open up about fantasies? It's not necessarily that I want her (or us) to follow through with them, I would just like to know how I can better pleasure her. I feel like if I have a better picture of what she fantasizes about, we can enjoy our lovemaking at a higher level.
The few times I have asked her about it, she says either she has none, or she only fantasizes about me. I suspect she is possibly embarrassed or afraid to share with me for fear that I may get jealous or upset.
She is a bit overweight (not obese), and in the past few years introduced various sexy outfits into her evening wardrobe, in addition to a collection of toys (vibrating, realistic, etc). She has become more comfortable with her body and we do enjoy our 'sessions', but I would love to bring it up a notch.
How can I approach the topic again and get a different response than I have in the past?
My question is: how can I get her to open up about fantasies? It's not necessarily that I want her (or us) to follow through with them, I would just like to know how I can better pleasure her. I feel like if I have a better picture of what she fantasizes about, we can enjoy our lovemaking at a higher level.
The few times I have asked her about it, she says either she has none, or she only fantasizes about me. I suspect she is possibly embarrassed or afraid to share with me for fear that I may get jealous or upset.
She is a bit overweight (not obese), and in the past few years introduced various sexy outfits into her evening wardrobe, in addition to a collection of toys (vibrating, realistic, etc). She has become more comfortable with her body and we do enjoy our 'sessions', but I would love to bring it up a notch.
How can I approach the topic again and get a different response than I have in the past?
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