My husband had a 5 month EA- dday was 4/3/14. We have been working hard toward R and it is going pretty well, but we have had ups and downs. Our story is in the Private section. Anyways, we have realized that BOUNDARIES have been a huge issue for my husband for probably his entire adult life. We are working hard to establish healthy boundaries. In the past he had been a bit of a flirt, liked to joke inappropriately, and was mostly just a "nice guy". He has read NMMNG and MMSP and both of those books have actually helped a TON! Just wondering what sorts of boundaries the rest of you have set post affair to work toward a healthier marriage. I'm not real concerned with OW right now- I think that door is firmly closed at he moment. More concerned with going forward- changing habits. Thanks!
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