Hi guys, I am new here, i really cant believe that i am posting on a infidelity forum asking about my marriage and husband. Let me tell you lil bit abt myself, I married my hubs in 2009, we started dating in '97, yes we dated almost 12yrs before we got married. He really loved me head over heels, we were in school wen v started seeing each other. We are from India, where love marriage is still considered a taboo, but we still went ahead n fought with parents and finally got them to agree to have us married. Like any normal couple, we had our ups n downs but we still stayed with each other and really stood with each other in all phases of our lives. I always saw a lot of truth and honesty in his eyes back then.
Anyways fast forward to 2014, and today we live in a country where sex is avlbl everywer, its legal and cheap. We moved here from India in 2009 and the last 2-3yrs spent here were the worst days of my life. I was unable to secure a job in this market and slowly as days progressed my hubs lost any respect he had for me. He stopped talking to his folks in India, not in touch with any one back home. He started saying thing like he is making all the money himself and that he can do anything with his money, no one dare ask him. He started whoring around the day we landed here, but still he treated me well and took good care of me. But over the last few months, things have changed completely, he cancelled my visa on the pretex of saying he needed to renew the application, he sent me packing back home. in the meantime he made tons of girlfriends, some of them he just met online on dating websites, meeting them regularly, going out to movies, restaurants, pubs, massage parlours etc.< br /> he started visiting many neighboring countries with literally strangers, to get to taste international *****s. Last 6 months i had never seen that face to him ever in the last 15yrs that i know him. I was shocked and surprised as to how a man who used to not have lunch with female colleagues could change to such an extent. On confronting he said he would stop everything and work on our marriage, but i doubt he is making any effort towards it. He hardly stays at home, he vanishes from office, comes home late, sometimes 4 am. his behavior is ignorant, snobby egoistic and arrogant. He says its his money, his saving and he doesnt owe any one in this world any explanation. I caught him straying in a redlight area 2 days ago and he just brushed it aside saying he was visiting a friend. Never have i seen him talking to me so arrogantly ever before, he really loved me truly and he considers himself lucky to have me in his life.
Im trying to see where and how things went wrong, has my marriage reached a point of no turn around? Im trying to see if i did something wrong and if me not earning money made him behave this way with me. Im lost....help!!
Anyways fast forward to 2014, and today we live in a country where sex is avlbl everywer, its legal and cheap. We moved here from India in 2009 and the last 2-3yrs spent here were the worst days of my life. I was unable to secure a job in this market and slowly as days progressed my hubs lost any respect he had for me. He stopped talking to his folks in India, not in touch with any one back home. He started saying thing like he is making all the money himself and that he can do anything with his money, no one dare ask him. He started whoring around the day we landed here, but still he treated me well and took good care of me. But over the last few months, things have changed completely, he cancelled my visa on the pretex of saying he needed to renew the application, he sent me packing back home. in the meantime he made tons of girlfriends, some of them he just met online on dating websites, meeting them regularly, going out to movies, restaurants, pubs, massage parlours etc.< br /> he started visiting many neighboring countries with literally strangers, to get to taste international *****s. Last 6 months i had never seen that face to him ever in the last 15yrs that i know him. I was shocked and surprised as to how a man who used to not have lunch with female colleagues could change to such an extent. On confronting he said he would stop everything and work on our marriage, but i doubt he is making any effort towards it. He hardly stays at home, he vanishes from office, comes home late, sometimes 4 am. his behavior is ignorant, snobby egoistic and arrogant. He says its his money, his saving and he doesnt owe any one in this world any explanation. I caught him straying in a redlight area 2 days ago and he just brushed it aside saying he was visiting a friend. Never have i seen him talking to me so arrogantly ever before, he really loved me truly and he considers himself lucky to have me in his life.
Im trying to see where and how things went wrong, has my marriage reached a point of no turn around? Im trying to see if i did something wrong and if me not earning money made him behave this way with me. Im lost....help!!
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