Hi all, I'd really appreciate some opinions on my current issue. There's going to be quite a long backstory, so this post may be kinda long.
There are 2 girls, A and B. We were all the in same clique in school and hung out with each other rather frequently.
A few years ago, I met this girl - let's call her A. I got along really well with her, to the extent that her sister even hinted that I would be her future BF. I tried asking her for a date once, but she rejected me. I never asked her why, and we ceased our frequent contact with one another since then.
Shortly after, I entered a relationship with B for a few years. I entered a relationship with her because I wanted to believe that love can be a choice. In the end, B broke up with me. The reason was she felt I didn't like her as much as I liked A.
I took a few months to get over the breakup and coincidentally, I ran into A and we started messaging a bit and caught up over lunch once. It was then I finally admitted to myself that B was right all along, and I really liked A much more than I liked B.
I did some further reflection, and I really feel that I need to do 2 things now, but would like some opinions the 2 things.
1. Meet up with B in person to apologise and tell her the truth.
2. Ask A why she rejected me.
Thanks for reading, any opinions will be greatly appreciated. Do let me know if more details are required.
There are 2 girls, A and B. We were all the in same clique in school and hung out with each other rather frequently.
A few years ago, I met this girl - let's call her A. I got along really well with her, to the extent that her sister even hinted that I would be her future BF. I tried asking her for a date once, but she rejected me. I never asked her why, and we ceased our frequent contact with one another since then.
Shortly after, I entered a relationship with B for a few years. I entered a relationship with her because I wanted to believe that love can be a choice. In the end, B broke up with me. The reason was she felt I didn't like her as much as I liked A.
I took a few months to get over the breakup and coincidentally, I ran into A and we started messaging a bit and caught up over lunch once. It was then I finally admitted to myself that B was right all along, and I really liked A much more than I liked B.
I did some further reflection, and I really feel that I need to do 2 things now, but would like some opinions the 2 things.
1. Meet up with B in person to apologise and tell her the truth.
2. Ask A why she rejected me.
Thanks for reading, any opinions will be greatly appreciated. Do let me know if more details are required.
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