For as long as I have known my boss (3 years) I have watched him fight for his marriage. He is a good man and a "nice guy". Married now for 20 years two daughters who he adores and who adore him but his wife seems to care less.
We would talk from time to time about the 180 and being alpha and he believed he was making huge strides in his relationship. About 6 months ago she told him she wanted out and he was devastated. Her parents and siblings came to his defense and were quite angry with her but to no avail she could not be swayed.
With everything I learned here I knew what was going on and he did not want to see it until today that is when his ex let him know she wanted to introduce the girls to Mr. Right. They have been divorced about 45 days. The hole is in just got a bit deeper.
He is likely better off but I have to think that being the person he is will he just walk back in to another situation with another W who takes him for granted and tires of his nice guy ways.
We would talk from time to time about the 180 and being alpha and he believed he was making huge strides in his relationship. About 6 months ago she told him she wanted out and he was devastated. Her parents and siblings came to his defense and were quite angry with her but to no avail she could not be swayed.
With everything I learned here I knew what was going on and he did not want to see it until today that is when his ex let him know she wanted to introduce the girls to Mr. Right. They have been divorced about 45 days. The hole is in just got a bit deeper.
He is likely better off but I have to think that being the person he is will he just walk back in to another situation with another W who takes him for granted and tires of his nice guy ways.
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