Long story short.
Stepson told school I beat him with a studded belt, choked him, tried to break his arm. School reported me, cops and family services paid me a visit. Investigated and concluded stepson was lying.
Stepson ran away from school, said a man (fitting my description), sneaks into his room with a knife and tries to kill him.
Stepson gives me dirty looks, snide comments, sarcastic remarks, refuses do complete chores, ONLY WHEN NO ONE ELSE IS IN ROOM.
When other people are present he is just the sweetest kid ever.
Stepson got sent to his room by his mom, she sees him not in his room, asks me to go tell him to get in his room. I go tell him, he balls his fists and gets in my face telling me he WILL punch me...I told him to do it. He went and told my wife I called him names and threatened him, she didn't believe he could threaten to punch me, so she is chewing my ass, in front of him, as he is giving me this "eat ****" look.
Stepson plays my wife against me regularly.
Stepson plays his dad against me, saying I routinely yell, curse, hit, don't feed him, refuse to let him bathe and use the restroom.
Ok, so on each occasion I bring it to my wife, who says...."you're the adult, you need to be nicer to him and be more positive". He's failing school, I'm an engineer major. I help him with his math and he will just throw a fit whenever I help, for the simplest stuff....multiplication, division , etc...she comes to the rescue and tells me to stop badgering him.
His father doesn't pay child support and wife doesn't work, I'm expected to pay for everything. What can I do, I'm on verge of seperation due to constant abuse from both of them...advice.
Oh, I don't talk to my stepson unless someone else is in the room, I have recordings of his outbursts, I don't tell him what to do anymore, for about 4 months.
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Stepson told school I beat him with a studded belt, choked him, tried to break his arm. School reported me, cops and family services paid me a visit. Investigated and concluded stepson was lying.
Stepson ran away from school, said a man (fitting my description), sneaks into his room with a knife and tries to kill him.
Stepson gives me dirty looks, snide comments, sarcastic remarks, refuses do complete chores, ONLY WHEN NO ONE ELSE IS IN ROOM.
When other people are present he is just the sweetest kid ever.
Stepson got sent to his room by his mom, she sees him not in his room, asks me to go tell him to get in his room. I go tell him, he balls his fists and gets in my face telling me he WILL punch me...I told him to do it. He went and told my wife I called him names and threatened him, she didn't believe he could threaten to punch me, so she is chewing my ass, in front of him, as he is giving me this "eat ****" look.
Stepson plays my wife against me regularly.
Stepson plays his dad against me, saying I routinely yell, curse, hit, don't feed him, refuse to let him bathe and use the restroom.
Ok, so on each occasion I bring it to my wife, who says...."you're the adult, you need to be nicer to him and be more positive". He's failing school, I'm an engineer major. I help him with his math and he will just throw a fit whenever I help, for the simplest stuff....multiplication, division , etc...she comes to the rescue and tells me to stop badgering him.
His father doesn't pay child support and wife doesn't work, I'm expected to pay for everything. What can I do, I'm on verge of seperation due to constant abuse from both of them...advice.
Oh, I don't talk to my stepson unless someone else is in the room, I have recordings of his outbursts, I don't tell him what to do anymore, for about 4 months.
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