My husband and I have been drifting for a while now. We see a marital counselor weekly, but I don't feel that it is helping much. My husband likes to go to "trivia night" at the bar every Wednesday. This has been a constant issue with us for months. He doesn't let me go out with my girl friends if I'm invited out. He doesn't physically keep me in, but threatens me with divorce or whatnot because he "cannot be married to someone who acts like a single woman." I have never cheated or been dishonest with him. He and I have had the conversation several times that if I couldn't go out, he couldn't go out...and he agrees every time. Yet, here comes Wednesday's. Everything will be wonderful afterward. We will talk it out and he will tell me he understands and we let it go and move on with life... Then Wednesday comes again... He will do everything he can including lying to me to get out to this "trivia night." I am sick of it. I have no time to myself and I have pretty much been alienated from my friends because some of them are single. He works very hard and is an excellent provider to our family... I work too, but only 33 hours a week. I just don't get it. I want him to be fair to me and either let me do things too or him stop. Is this a dead cause? Should I just let in and let him go and continue to be home? Am I wrong? Help! I will answer any questions.
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