I got a new job about two weeks ago! It's a mid-level one but i'm happy to be back in the game. Problem is husband isn't too excited about it cause the one who hired me is my ex-fiance's brother. Ex works there to but on different floor. I'm not sure if his insecurity related to history of his affair or not
He started to criticize me in every aspect,the one in bracket is my explanation to him
1. You're starting to lose weight (i don't eat snack as much anymore)
2. That skirt is inappropriate (it's a normal pencil skirt,what are you talking about ?)
3. Too much makeup (it's workplace,off course just powder and mascara won't do)
4. You're home way too late (6.30 p.m is normal for this job)
5. Don't you think that heels is too high ? (it's the same like i used to wear years ago)
One time i came home at 10 pm and all i wanted was to shower and sleep but hold a moment, he sat on the front porch with grumpy expression. He interrogated me although i already texted to let him know i was gonna be late. He asked whether ex was in the meeting or not, who else was there, why it took a long time etc etc. Even when i came home at 6 or 7 he kept asking the same question and he always gave me this distrust look
Last saturday i took one of my kid to doctor, on way home he threw up so i had to clean my car and i found a small black stick device beneath driver's seat. I didn't know what the heck was that so i googled the brand and type, it was a voice recorder. Take a wild guess who put it there, i was too angry at this point
I asked him why did he do that and he said he feels entitled to know what's going on in my life, i agreed but i asked him isn't hidden voice recorder just show that he's paranoid. He said he's afraid i that i'm gonna cheat since our marriage isn't in a great condition. I told him that i rarely meet my ex and no longer feel anything towards him. He didn't buy it.
Can someone explain to me why he acts like that ? Why is he so insecure when i give him no reason to ?
He started to criticize me in every aspect,the one in bracket is my explanation to him
1. You're starting to lose weight (i don't eat snack as much anymore)
2. That skirt is inappropriate (it's a normal pencil skirt,what are you talking about ?)
3. Too much makeup (it's workplace,off course just powder and mascara won't do)
4. You're home way too late (6.30 p.m is normal for this job)
5. Don't you think that heels is too high ? (it's the same like i used to wear years ago)
One time i came home at 10 pm and all i wanted was to shower and sleep but hold a moment, he sat on the front porch with grumpy expression. He interrogated me although i already texted to let him know i was gonna be late. He asked whether ex was in the meeting or not, who else was there, why it took a long time etc etc. Even when i came home at 6 or 7 he kept asking the same question and he always gave me this distrust look
Last saturday i took one of my kid to doctor, on way home he threw up so i had to clean my car and i found a small black stick device beneath driver's seat. I didn't know what the heck was that so i googled the brand and type, it was a voice recorder. Take a wild guess who put it there, i was too angry at this point
I asked him why did he do that and he said he feels entitled to know what's going on in my life, i agreed but i asked him isn't hidden voice recorder just show that he's paranoid. He said he's afraid i that i'm gonna cheat since our marriage isn't in a great condition. I told him that i rarely meet my ex and no longer feel anything towards him. He didn't buy it.
Can someone explain to me why he acts like that ? Why is he so insecure when i give him no reason to ?
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