UPDATE.
I have file for divorce. All said and done. Need some advice here.
The divorce part (or w/e it is called) is paid for.
I have yet to get her served. Time is running out, or possibly has (what is the time limit for this? 6weeks?) The processor and/or the sherriff want a large some to do so, and they will only attempt 3 times -I do not have the funds for this. She (obviously) is not only avoiding it, but doesn't want it - but doesn't have the money to stop it.
That leaves either by certified mail or newspaper. I am running out of time(if there is a limit). While we sometimes get a long, things are just never gonna work out - (read link below)
State: Minnesota
Yes I am dragging my feet.she is playing super wife now - pressing all those "buttons" (one time she said, go out and enjoy, just don't leave me... like w/e), and I know the reason, but im just not the typical a$$hole/d**khead I would like to be. So no - "...you need to bla bla bla"
Nothing is more punishing than self punishment. I (think) I know the consequences - and doing this solo - is hard enough - thats what you guys are for - non-biased-support-strangers :smthumbup:
So keep the advice coming - What I have done so far was challenging enough, w/o her begging not to. (I understand she will have no home or money etc... )
Thanks
ps
Original Thread -Was too old,
I have file for divorce. All said and done. Need some advice here.
The divorce part (or w/e it is called) is paid for.
I have yet to get her served. Time is running out, or possibly has (what is the time limit for this? 6weeks?) The processor and/or the sherriff want a large some to do so, and they will only attempt 3 times -I do not have the funds for this. She (obviously) is not only avoiding it, but doesn't want it - but doesn't have the money to stop it.
That leaves either by certified mail or newspaper. I am running out of time(if there is a limit). While we sometimes get a long, things are just never gonna work out - (read link below)
State: Minnesota
- If I fail to get her served, will it still default as a divorce?
- If not what happens?
- Will I have to pay for the divorce again?
- What is the exact procedure for the newspaper method (example would be nice)
- What is the procedure for certified mail. Just a CYA question so I don't mess it up.
Yes I am dragging my feet.she is playing super wife now - pressing all those "buttons" (one time she said, go out and enjoy, just don't leave me... like w/e), and I know the reason, but im just not the typical a$$hole/d**khead I would like to be. So no - "...you need to bla bla bla"
Nothing is more punishing than self punishment. I (think) I know the consequences - and doing this solo - is hard enough - thats what you guys are for - non-biased-support-strangers :smthumbup:
So keep the advice coming - What I have done so far was challenging enough, w/o her begging not to. (I understand she will have no home or money etc... )
Thanks
ps
Original Thread -Was too old,
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