Hey all.. i will make it as short as possible, i want to know if i am being unreasonable.. my partner of 5 years (distance relationship til 6 months ago now living together) i shouldnt have but read his texts 5 months ago where he had texts sent to an ex which were mostly innocent but some inappropriate. We had a huge row over it and i moved out.. i eventually forgave him and had his assurances there would be no more contact with her. Well, there wasnt for a long time then i was on his computer one day when an email popped up from her. Clearly they hadnt been in touch according to the content (i read it of course) and he told her in a reply that he was now back with me and living with me again (she had heard they had split through a friend). the few messages were jokey and not inappropriate. I confronted him and he said he would not be 'dictated to' and that he would like to meet her one more time to tell her he was happy etc and that if he bumped into h er he would like to be 'civil'. I replied that i was very very uncomfortable with him seeing her at all. What on earth can i do about it...? he may or may not tell me if he met up with her, i will not be asking..am i unreasonable.. i guess i dont trust this woman as she is unahappily married. i do trust my partner but this trust wavers when i know they are in contact...:(
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