I met my boyfriend while I've been studying at university. He has lived in this city his whole life and is very family orientated. I am not that way inclined at all, I've lived away from home since I was 18 (now 25) and am quite happy to visit them maybe once every 3 months.
I graduate in may and don't particularly want to stay here, the prospects aren't very good for the job I'd want to get. I'd much rather move somewhere where there's more going on. I assumed at the beginning of our relationship that when it came to it my boyfriend would move with me and we could start a life together elsewhere. I'd even like to live abroad for a bit. However he has made it clear he never wants to leave this city. It just seemed closed minded really, how can he know he doesn't want to live elsewhere when he has never experienced it?!
I don't want to feel like I'm compromising my life for him by agreeing to stay here. But i also don't want to loose him. Help!
I graduate in may and don't particularly want to stay here, the prospects aren't very good for the job I'd want to get. I'd much rather move somewhere where there's more going on. I assumed at the beginning of our relationship that when it came to it my boyfriend would move with me and we could start a life together elsewhere. I'd even like to live abroad for a bit. However he has made it clear he never wants to leave this city. It just seemed closed minded really, how can he know he doesn't want to live elsewhere when he has never experienced it?!
I don't want to feel like I'm compromising my life for him by agreeing to stay here. But i also don't want to loose him. Help!
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