This last week has been the worse! Monday started off great i was feeling in good spirits. So quick recap
My Husband asked for a separation 31 days ago,I agreed. After 8 years of marriage and 12 years of being together. I was hurt and devastated but i accepted that i thought he just needed time. 9 of those years he faced a very heavy alcohol addiction in which i stood by his side.
20 days ago I find out he doesnt want to be separated he wants a divorce. I was not ok with this and like a fool i begged and pleaded and cried the whole 9 yards.
18 days ago I find out he has been involved in a 2 year long affair with a woman from his job.
a year and 3 months ago I caught him texting her and i confronted him. He said he would stop talking to her we would go to counseling and we would rebuild... all lies now I know this now because he admitted he never stopped talking to her and if anything their connection was only deeper.
So here I am today feeling like crap.. i cant even think straight.. i call him.. I guess it goes to voice mail, I think i hang up but i guess i didn't and it ended up leaving a message of me crying and talking to myself "why am i calling him why am i so stupid" ugh so I start texting him and being ridiculous.. and he just responds... Ok..Ok thats all he ever says to me via text.
I can't believe i did that I cant understand why I keep back tracking, I started off strong. How in the world do I do this?
I was trying the 180 but i keep responding to his messages, we have kids together so sometimes we have to be together so I talk to him. I just keep f'ing this up.
My Husband asked for a separation 31 days ago,I agreed. After 8 years of marriage and 12 years of being together. I was hurt and devastated but i accepted that i thought he just needed time. 9 of those years he faced a very heavy alcohol addiction in which i stood by his side.
20 days ago I find out he doesnt want to be separated he wants a divorce. I was not ok with this and like a fool i begged and pleaded and cried the whole 9 yards.
18 days ago I find out he has been involved in a 2 year long affair with a woman from his job.
a year and 3 months ago I caught him texting her and i confronted him. He said he would stop talking to her we would go to counseling and we would rebuild... all lies now I know this now because he admitted he never stopped talking to her and if anything their connection was only deeper.
So here I am today feeling like crap.. i cant even think straight.. i call him.. I guess it goes to voice mail, I think i hang up but i guess i didn't and it ended up leaving a message of me crying and talking to myself "why am i calling him why am i so stupid" ugh so I start texting him and being ridiculous.. and he just responds... Ok..Ok thats all he ever says to me via text.
I can't believe i did that I cant understand why I keep back tracking, I started off strong. How in the world do I do this?
I was trying the 180 but i keep responding to his messages, we have kids together so sometimes we have to be together so I talk to him. I just keep f'ing this up.
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