I've noticed that more and more young girls are getting pregnant and becoming single mothers than ever before. It's become an epedemic in the UK.
Now I want to warn you why you shouldn't date single mothers, especially young single mothers.
First of all, being a young single mother says a lot of negative things about a girl's character. It shows she is careless with contraception for a start. It also shows she has no ambitions or goals for her life, instead choosing to have kids really young instead of getting an education, career and income in place first. A lot of young single mothers falsely believe that having kids is some sort of achievement, when in reality it is no achievement whatsoever.
I can't stand these young single mothers who don't have a job but just claim every benefit going and get a free house and expect the taxpayer to pay for their mistakes.
There are several reasons why as a guy you shouldn't get involved with single mothers. To begin with, in my experience they always want you to become some sort of father figure to their kids. Since many of them don't work, they also expect you to pay for them and their kids for a lot of things. Also, it's likely their ex boyfriend or husband will still be in the picture (unless he's bugared off for good), and who needs to deal with all that nonsense?
The other downside to single mothers is that it's likely they'll want more kids and with you, and they might try and trap you into getting them pregnant by lying about contraception etc (this really does happen, I'm not just making this up). Don't allow yourself to get lumbered with kids and have to throw away your goals and dreams to support them. Put your life first.
I've also found that a lot of single mothers tend to be fat and overweight, letting themselves go after they've had kids. Many also tend to be 'easy' in that they put out really easily and become really clingy once you start dating them. Perhaps this is because they were rejected by the father of their kids and are now desperate for a guy to like them.
Now I believe in the expression 'live and let live', so if girls want to throw away their lives by having kids really young then that's their choice. But I myself don't want kids, and it frustrates me when I meet a really nice girl only to later find out she's got a kid (or kids) only for my attraction and interest to plummet to zero.
Basically, be wary of all single mothers, but especially girls in their late teens or early 20s who have kids. I suppose it's not too bad if she waited until her mid 20s or older before having babies, but when they have kids at a younger age than that, I have to question why. Why didn't they wait until they had a career and income in place first? Don't try and tell me you got pregnant 'by accident'. There is no such thing as getting pregnant 'by accident', only carelessness or a deliberate attempt.
I wouldn't have needed to write this post if young single mothers were rare, but as a guy who wants to play the dating field, you are going to encounter a lot of single mothers along the way so do be careful. And if you don't want kids, ALWAYS use condoms or get the snip.
Now I want to warn you why you shouldn't date single mothers, especially young single mothers.
First of all, being a young single mother says a lot of negative things about a girl's character. It shows she is careless with contraception for a start. It also shows she has no ambitions or goals for her life, instead choosing to have kids really young instead of getting an education, career and income in place first. A lot of young single mothers falsely believe that having kids is some sort of achievement, when in reality it is no achievement whatsoever.
I can't stand these young single mothers who don't have a job but just claim every benefit going and get a free house and expect the taxpayer to pay for their mistakes.
There are several reasons why as a guy you shouldn't get involved with single mothers. To begin with, in my experience they always want you to become some sort of father figure to their kids. Since many of them don't work, they also expect you to pay for them and their kids for a lot of things. Also, it's likely their ex boyfriend or husband will still be in the picture (unless he's bugared off for good), and who needs to deal with all that nonsense?
The other downside to single mothers is that it's likely they'll want more kids and with you, and they might try and trap you into getting them pregnant by lying about contraception etc (this really does happen, I'm not just making this up). Don't allow yourself to get lumbered with kids and have to throw away your goals and dreams to support them. Put your life first.
I've also found that a lot of single mothers tend to be fat and overweight, letting themselves go after they've had kids. Many also tend to be 'easy' in that they put out really easily and become really clingy once you start dating them. Perhaps this is because they were rejected by the father of their kids and are now desperate for a guy to like them.
Now I believe in the expression 'live and let live', so if girls want to throw away their lives by having kids really young then that's their choice. But I myself don't want kids, and it frustrates me when I meet a really nice girl only to later find out she's got a kid (or kids) only for my attraction and interest to plummet to zero.
Basically, be wary of all single mothers, but especially girls in their late teens or early 20s who have kids. I suppose it's not too bad if she waited until her mid 20s or older before having babies, but when they have kids at a younger age than that, I have to question why. Why didn't they wait until they had a career and income in place first? Don't try and tell me you got pregnant 'by accident'. There is no such thing as getting pregnant 'by accident', only carelessness or a deliberate attempt.
I wouldn't have needed to write this post if young single mothers were rare, but as a guy who wants to play the dating field, you are going to encounter a lot of single mothers along the way so do be careful. And if you don't want kids, ALWAYS use condoms or get the snip.
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