Hello. I am new here and have never posted before so here we go...
I have know my H for 12 years now, married for over 6. Right after we got married I made the biggest mistake of all. I cheated. It was only once, but once does it. I conceived our child we have now. The bad part of he does not know she is not his. The OM has recently come back into the picture and is wanting to be part of her life...5 years later. My H loves our child so much. I was young. I was dumb and never since then have I messed up. I am here to ask everyone how I can go about telling my husband everything? How do I start the conversation? He did nothing to deserve what I am about to put him through. I would rather live with the guilt and pain for the rest of my life and let it eat me alive than put him through heartache, but I have no choice since the OM is threatening to tell him if I do not. We just moved somewhere new and have no friends so I have no where to take my daughter when I tell him. She will have to be in the house. I know he is going to lash out as he has every right. I just dont know how to begin....:confused:
I have know my H for 12 years now, married for over 6. Right after we got married I made the biggest mistake of all. I cheated. It was only once, but once does it. I conceived our child we have now. The bad part of he does not know she is not his. The OM has recently come back into the picture and is wanting to be part of her life...5 years later. My H loves our child so much. I was young. I was dumb and never since then have I messed up. I am here to ask everyone how I can go about telling my husband everything? How do I start the conversation? He did nothing to deserve what I am about to put him through. I would rather live with the guilt and pain for the rest of my life and let it eat me alive than put him through heartache, but I have no choice since the OM is threatening to tell him if I do not. We just moved somewhere new and have no friends so I have no where to take my daughter when I tell him. She will have to be in the house. I know he is going to lash out as he has every right. I just dont know how to begin....:confused:
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