Multiple Affairs - Which AP do you dislike the most?

This is for BS's that have been through more than one affair. Which OP do you feel the most disdain for? Is it the one that went PA? The EA only/PA only? Is it the one your WS had the most feelings for? How do you view them or do you discount them totally and focus only on your spouse? How long did it take you to finally stop thinking about the AP?

I have been around this block and I am most troubled by the one he "fell" for. Just curious how others feel.

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