What can I do?

This is going to be a long post but I'll try to explain it well. My girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me the other night, explaining that things can't go on how they have been doing. All done via text message after she had a busy week with work and other commitments. I guess the last couple of months have been difficult with us both trying to progress our careers. We are both very similar, both dont want kids for a long time and dont want to settle down for a long time. With fun, enjoyment and laughter being the main things that underpinned our relationship. I could tell lately something was bothering her and she didnt want to talk about it when I asked. Now it turns out that she cant see where our relationship is going, and that it would be worse in the long run to be together. Her thoughts has been distancing her from me and I know that isnt what she wants to continue. She thanked me for always being supportive and said that she has had an amazing time with me with so many amazing memories. All of which im finding very difficult to accept when she isn't prepared to try and make things work. I've attempted to call her and she doesn't want to talk over the phone, will not see me in person and contacts just by text. Ive asked to chat to her face to face and she states that it wouldnt be a good idea. I guess part of me is trying to cling onto any little bit of hope that we can work things out. As ive never even thought about being with anyone else as ive been amazingly happy with her and how everything works. I am willing to change as I would love to one day marry her and have a family with her (both I havent really told her). I think the world of her, she is pretty, amazing body, personality is the best and we get along so well. She was my best friend and girlfriend. Now I have to work in a job which requires a lot of confidence of which I have none at the moment. I am struggling with the fact that if I cant make the one person who I love when I give it my all then what bigger failure is there. She states that maybe a day this week would be better to meet up and chat. But with no closure, no real idea and it all being done by text I dont know whether I can wait for a day that probably will never come, so it feels to me I will never get an answer and never get closure. I will not turn up at her place of work and I will not turn up unannounced. Is there anything I can do to help myself/her/us as a couple? I think ultimately I want her to be happy. Ive been thinking of no contact but with no real closure I cant see how I can allow myself to throw away all of what weve got together without even trying. Please help if you can give me some ideas, some help.

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