| I found out today that my boyfriend has a bestiality fetish. I'm not exactly sure how severe it is but he was showing me horse videos and telling me how much those got him excited. Well, I'm totally fine with that as I am a very open minded person when it comes to this as long as he doesn't try to exert certain fantasies on me that I don't find arousing or comfortable. The thing is that, after showing me all those videos and us having a somewhat kinky conversation about all that (again, I was fine with it, I was merely participating because I know it would make him happy and I didn't have an issue with anything although it wasn't arousing on my end), he asked me if I was upset because he felt bad that he encouraged me to participate in the conversation and he knew that he is very weird. I had absolutely no problems with that, obviously because part of a healthy sexual relationship is being open to my partner's fetishes at a comfortable level. He has had difficult relationships in which his exes made him feel horrible for having weird fetishes and I don't want him to feel bad for having them because everyone's different and it doesn't make him a freak just because he gets aroused by unconventional ideas and thoughts. But the thing is that, as much as I am open to pretty much anything, I acknowledge the fact that bestiality fetish is something out of the norm and I'm unsure how unhealthy it might be for him in the long run and if I should try to 'help' him in any way. Thoughts and advice, anyone? Thanks :) | |||
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