this aint got nothing to do with realtionships

my fingers are so illiterate. this is about how many times you have had a loaded gun put in your face and walked away from it. now i stated in the head line that this did not have a thing to do with relationships,,,, at least not as you folks can relate, but it does. i've had four guns pointed at me, 3 to the noggin and 1 in the back certainly i've done something right,,, i'm still alive! now how would that figure into a relationship? simple really. after looking at death ,,, life becomes a new. the cheating spouse,,,, you realize is truly a non issue. the WS also a non issue. this thing with my GF,, truly is a non issue. i knew all the answers before i came here, just had to hear it from else where. the thing about the gun in face is it robs you,,,,,,, of what you used to be. you either grow from it or it kills you. no other choice allowed. of course you might think there is ,,, but thats just growth. and growth and change are good. this is my point of view after all so if it doesn't jive with you or it don't sit right with ya, thats perfectly ok. how the gun in face changed me and where i am today? well if it had not been for that gun in my face i would have dumped this GF of mine ten years ago. even with the little boy who is my son and at 11 y.o. he's as tall as i am. course that aint saying much, i'm a sawed off little bugger, stand 5'8" in heels,,,did i just go there , awww hell. now we have a beautiful 6 y.o. girl as well. her big brother named her before she was even concieved. told momma that he was getting a baby sister and her name would be jaden. me and the misses both said no you're not getting a baby sister... uhm 2 weeks later guess what. they are 6 years and 355 days apart. sorry i digress again,, the point is this. this guy doesn't care if you be bangin the whole dang county, just let me know what you're doing so i can adjust for it. so i'm not freaking the hell out wondering if you got creamed by a semi and are laying in a ditch some where. and if you are laying in a ditch some where at least i can have a reference point for the police if it was you getting murdered.but i gotta know who he is for problems you aint lookin for. this is how a gun in the face has changed me. lies are far worse than cheating will ever be. and the problem i had that i think may have been resolved is a direct result of lying. i got gut punched from the etheral and she lied to me about it. but in all ,,, it's not a major issue guess i really needed to gripe it out is all, i thank all of you, snide remarks and all. so ,,, any one else got some good gun stories? I SAID GOOD not that other stuff..

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