| and i'm sure some of that no luck is due to emy trying to get the point across with out it being a long drawn out writing. but i see that will not happen this time. i digress,,, sorry. ok it all starts with a dog coming over for a week. this was arranged by my step daughter(s/d) to watch the dog while the owner, a famliy friend on their side, went on vacation. come time to return said doggy to it's mommy the s/d asked the misses if she would come along with. or so i was told by the misses, i did not hear s/d ask that,,, so i don't know for sure?! they spend 30-45 minutes with the dogs owner, then as i am trold they went driving around,,,,,,,,,,,,, for 7 1/2 hours. the misses has many spots in her back that have been broken from an accident in 08. total of 10 broken vertabrea5 in small of back and 5 in neck. needless to say sitting to long in one position is a killer for her, but she goes riding around in a car that has a sports suspension and bad struts. i have a bad back, i can't sit for more than 2 hours with out having to get up and stretch. during that time they were gone i get a gut punch that i have never felt come from her before. i have had these gut punches from her and they always wind up not being good news. i had not felt that since we had gotten back together. so i ask her what had happened? she told me they took the long way home. i know the route thye say they took, it don't take no 7 1/2 hours to drive that. and with a bad back, no they stopped and they did things yet she won't say any more about it other than we just drove around for that time. when they did get home, she goes running into the bed room with out so much as giving me eye contact, totally out of character for her, she has always given me eye contact even when she was doing the pee pee dance on the way home from work, when she comes through that door she will at least look at me, but not this time. now i'm going to add a little extra here, the getting back together, she had left me to come back to her home state for medical reasons not hers, her moms. though she did tell me it was her medical issue, when i got back into state she started off by handing me a restraining order and other papers as well. until you get to know her family,,, it's not what you would normally think. they have sent each other restraining orders. this is how i learned where it is she hits me when she is up to something no good, the gut punch. only this gut punch was far stronger than any of the others she has sent me. now an additional bit of info. this winter she had made a bunch of scarves. one for each of the kids. she told me she would knit me one when she got done with the kids. ok,, np. when she got done with those three then some one else got a scarf from her for their unborn child. when she finished that one she made one for the dog's owner and her daughter and then commenced to making 2 for another family friend. i have not yet seen mine and have been told 3 times i would be getting one. the knitting materials are all put away now. when i posted the thing about the scarves in the mens club there was a reply asking whats the deal with the scarves. now normally that would be a reasonable question. but considering this forum and it's contents i have to say. if you can't figure out the deal with the scarves let me ask you this if your knitting the kids a scarf and the old man asks if you'd make him one and you say yes, not once but 3 times and you make every one else a scarf what message are you sending your supposed significant other? i hope that answered your question about the deal with the scarves. it has nothing to do with the scarves,,,,, it's the underlying message from not getting the scarf and getting alweays put on the back burner. it all does tie together. so what do you folks think, did she fool around with some one? and what is the meaning of the lack of scarf? you see. i think i already know the answer. i want to hear it from a womans mouth as to what is going on, because they do know what is going on in this short synpopsis of a problem. hey scarlett B,,,,, did i do better this time? is it readable, does it explain well enough? | |||
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