| Hello, I'm not a huge fan of Facebook however my other half went on a stag do and came back with photos of escorts they had hired, (i somewhat expected this.) However, he then came back and added the girl on Facebook (the only one of the stag party to do so.  ) I'm usually pretty chilled but for some reason this pained me as they were stone cold drunk in a club in a foreign city... why would he remember this girls name or even to think of adding her, what happens on tour stays on tour right? Of course, i communicated with him and told him it wasn't acceptable, the response i got was "You can't tell me who to add on Facebook or think that you can control my life, i don't give a**** if you're upset, i'm the one who should be upset! It's discrimination that you're telling me not to add her, a prostitute is still a real person." (Yes, they are, but not when the only setting you've met her in is when you are paying her to be with your party.) Now, i have been a bit of a pain over the last few months due to severe depression and bi-polar, mixed with a hell of a lot of anxiety. However the argument that followed after me asking him to delete her off Facebook was one in which he threw all the past few months back at me and said, "Hey, you're not normal, everyone else is more important to me than you, i don't love you, I've tried to tell you that before." Being a pretty independent person after a few minutes of getting upset i got out the car and proceeded to walk home, he kept following me, asking me to get into the car because he 'had something important to tell me.' Eventually fed up with this i got back in the car and he proceeded to tell me that he loved me sometimes he was just confused. Alright, we'll leave it a few days and see what we want. Now, he wants to be all lovey dovey with me, however i get the feeling I'll just be used to help him with his university stuff, (undergraduate in psychology, you'd think he'd understand depression.) I also think he might be sticking around for our holiday to crete booked in three months. Sorry to make the rant so long, but it's insanely nice to vent to my computer screen, just looking for any advice. I hate Facebook and the fact it breaks people up but it really did pain me that he remembered her name and who she was and proceeded to find her on Facebook. I hear calls all around me from friends to get rid but they have never liked the sod anyway. I keep going back for some reason and the happy times really are special and i would love to make it work like that but he just doesn't seem to care and seems totally unwilling to remove this one escort off Facebook. I'm not even sure what my next move is. Thanks for listening if you got to the end. If he had removed the escort last week this mega essay would have been focused on helping him with his assignment and we would be getting closer to the finish line, his loss! | |||
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