| My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now. I am really starting to get the feeling that he doesn't like me that much anymore. In the beginning, I couldn't believe how he seemed to be so perfect for me and exactly what I have always looked for in a boyfriend. Sense we have gotten together I LEARNED, and not by him telling me about it, that he already has two children. Is this really so much of a problem for me? No, I love kids. But he tried to keep it a secret from me and even lied about it. I found out about his children about 2 months into the relationship, which shows just how much time he spends with them and how much he seems to care about them. Ever sense then, he still does not talk about them ever. Am I wrong for thinking that he is a deadbeat dad? Also, at the beginning of our relationship people would always approach me and tell me about how he talks about me all the time and he seems so much happier now sense he has started being with me. This is no longer the case. I know he never talks about me anymore, and he never seems to be happy anymore either. I also NEVER get any compliments from him like I used to. For instance, he used to always say I was beautiful and perfect and so on. Now he never says anything cute and nice to me. During christmas time he got me very nice gifts ( jewelry.) Then for my birthday he gets me nothing and for valentines day he gets me nothing.... even though I got stuff for him. He did not even make me a card on either occasion. Another thing is he never wants to do anything sexual anymore. At the beginning I made him wait for it and he was always all over it. Now that he can get it whenever he wants, he doesn't touch me. When I ask him about these things, he gets angry. He is always angry about something lately. I just feel so used, ugly, and not good enough. He tells me he loves me, invites me to his house almost every day, and always says he misses me when we aren't together. But all of these other actions really make me feel like that is not the case. I don't know what to do...help? |
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