Hey folks,
I've been separated now for 9 months. Not my idea, nor did I want it. I'm wondering how/when you realized that you were done trying to wait for the other one to make a decision. We're in a limbo state right now and agreed to not date or be with other people while she decides if she can be happy.
Trust me, i'm sticking it out, but there are days I just want to say to hell with it. If you cant tell me you want me today, whats the difference in a month. I just recently was able to move into my own apartment after staying with family, and since then I've felt my connection to her wane. My libido is pretty non existent suddenly (which is really shocking), and I don't really feel like I have much if any sexual desire towards her. Its like my mind has decided I cant be invested in this anymore.
Just wondering if others have felt this, and if its normal.
Thanks in advance for the input.
I've been separated now for 9 months. Not my idea, nor did I want it. I'm wondering how/when you realized that you were done trying to wait for the other one to make a decision. We're in a limbo state right now and agreed to not date or be with other people while she decides if she can be happy.
Trust me, i'm sticking it out, but there are days I just want to say to hell with it. If you cant tell me you want me today, whats the difference in a month. I just recently was able to move into my own apartment after staying with family, and since then I've felt my connection to her wane. My libido is pretty non existent suddenly (which is really shocking), and I don't really feel like I have much if any sexual desire towards her. Its like my mind has decided I cant be invested in this anymore.
Just wondering if others have felt this, and if its normal.
Thanks in advance for the input.
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