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stay or go? PLEASE advise!

Married 23 yrs, 2 teenage girls, in later 40s. Wife and I do nothing together, and it's been this way for quite some time. Unless it's a school function, we don't go... And we miss some of those. She never wants to do anything, have not seen a movie in years, can only remember going to dinner with friends once in the last 5 yrs. No sex in at least 2, in separate bedrooms for 6 months.

She has it pretty good, homemaker, but does nothing with free time. Organizes kids homework / school stuff, but does nothing with friends, no gym, typical day includes nap, wine at the end while watching QVC.

Saw counsellors in 2010, and I've seen a couple of therapist / psychiatrists about her likely depression /OCD. ( mom definitely has these... She is living "learned behavior".

Been wanting to get divorced for a while, have seen attorney and am verse versed in all aspects (I have reviewed or such a long time). Believe I am there, but it's tough to leave the girls and, well, little scary.

Input appreciated.

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