Hi,
Im new to this so bare with me.
Ive been married to my wife for 11 years.
Over the last 2 years she finished up her nursing degree and started working full time as a ER nurse 3 months ago.
This is her first job to have since weve been married.
Now the issue,
the whole time she was in school we had a great relationship, communication, sex life all the way up to about 2 months ago.
When she first started working full time ( 3days a week 12 hr shifts) nothing changed between us. then after a month it seems like all hell has broke loose.
she has disconnected from me, on days she works when shes gets home I am now the last of her concerns, sex has dropped out from 3 time a week to once every week to week and half.
We have always been a very sexual couple but now its wam-bam dont touch me, and if i dont ag it on it probably wouldnt ever happen
my first tought was that shes stressed with the new career so I have been doing all the house work, taking care of the kids, and cooking. on top of my full time job. without asking or rubbing it in that everything is done, there is nothing left for her to do beside work and sleep
Now she is telling that she needs alone time/space.
Could something be going on ?
Ive started checking her phone call and txt log via the bill, theres no new numbers, but shes also way to smart to use something that can get her caught such as email/phone. shes not going out with friends.
Am i being paranoid ?
Sorry so long, I am a open book so you can ask anything.
Thanks in advance
Im new to this so bare with me.
Ive been married to my wife for 11 years.
Over the last 2 years she finished up her nursing degree and started working full time as a ER nurse 3 months ago.
This is her first job to have since weve been married.
Now the issue,
the whole time she was in school we had a great relationship, communication, sex life all the way up to about 2 months ago.
When she first started working full time ( 3days a week 12 hr shifts) nothing changed between us. then after a month it seems like all hell has broke loose.
she has disconnected from me, on days she works when shes gets home I am now the last of her concerns, sex has dropped out from 3 time a week to once every week to week and half.
We have always been a very sexual couple but now its wam-bam dont touch me, and if i dont ag it on it probably wouldnt ever happen
my first tought was that shes stressed with the new career so I have been doing all the house work, taking care of the kids, and cooking. on top of my full time job. without asking or rubbing it in that everything is done, there is nothing left for her to do beside work and sleep
Now she is telling that she needs alone time/space.
Could something be going on ?
Ive started checking her phone call and txt log via the bill, theres no new numbers, but shes also way to smart to use something that can get her caught such as email/phone. shes not going out with friends.
Am i being paranoid ?
Sorry so long, I am a open book so you can ask anything.
Thanks in advance
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