My husband and I have been together for 3 yrs and married for only 1 yr with 6 months old daughter. I thought my marriage has been going pretty well as my husband is really nice, caring person and helps me a lot with my baby girl who's only 6 months old now.
Two weeks ago, my phone battery died so I decided to use my husband's phone to search for something on internet. I found out that he has been searching for escorts in the area we are living in and few other cities close by. Most of his searches were in a area that he goes on business trip. My husband has business trip every year in that area and I am assuming he is looking for escort to have an affair while he is on business trip this November. I also found out that he has been searching for places for brazillian waxing.. I found a text message he sent to a lady who does brazilian waxing who claims that she is "strictly mobile"....This was really chocking as he never showed any interest on this waxing and never discussed anythinh about this with me..
And I also found out that he ordered bunch of stuff from the website called, "wish".. He rarely order anything online.. He ordered see through panties, see through gashion gay pants (it was the description of the pants)..he never mentioned anything about this to me either..and I found out he has been searching for hotel in a city which he will be going for his business trip in november.. His company picks the hotel every yr and they pay for it.. So this was very suspicious that he has been searching for hotels in that city on dates of his business trip..
I have been having fights with my husband because I caught him watching porn and I found the internet history that he has visited "****** *******" website, where married person goes on to have an affair.....this happened about 7 months ago while I was still pregnant. I confronted him and he says he watches porn just like all other man and he kept denying that he never went on ****** ******* site.. I did not believe him but I decided to forgive him once..
Anyways I confronted him about the prostitue search, Brazilian waxing, and ordering those see through underwears....he denied doing any of these at first, but he admitted when I showed him the evidence. I told him this is totally unacceptable and that he is married man with 6 months old baby..
I said that its weird how he would want to get brazillian waxing done all of the sudden, orders see through underwears ( it was delievered and he hide them in his closet) and searching for hotels and escorts in a city he will be travelling in Novemember..
He says im misunderstanding everything and overthinking things. He never intends to meet any of those escorts, he did that search just to find his clients who he thinks is an escort???
And he found her ot sometning and he did that just for fun and by curiousity but didn't mean to meet them or anything bad..he wanted to get brazilian waxing done bc his down there is too hairy and it makes him sweat a lot so he tried to shave it himself and failed..so he was seeking professional help and the see through underwears only for functional reasons bc its more breathable and loose fitting than his cotton underwears?? Really? I think cotton ones are more breathable than nylon see through panties..he insisted that all these are just coincidence and I am over thinking..
I found out he has STD ( herpes virus) from 2 yrs ago.. He accused me that I got him an virus but he went to the clinic to check and I was clean. Now I am assuming he might have been having affairs with escorts in the past as well.. He has been going to business trips every yr for past 3 yrs...
I was so shocked and speechless that he has been searching for prostitues in our city and cities close by.. Now i do not trust my husband and I do not want him to go on a business trip this november.. I told him I cannot live with a liar and a man who searches for escort when he is married...he begged me for forgiveness.. I forgave him again....
After this incident, i found out that he saved the escorts phone number on his phone, contact name was " brazillian buddy". It was on his recently used contact list which he cannot manually delete.. I searched the number and found out it was number for prostitue in our city we live in....i cried after finding this out.. There is no way that this number was on recently used list if he did not call or txt within few days...... I confronted him with this, he denies again and he says he has no idea who "brazillian buddy" is he says it might be brazillian waxing lady. After I showed him what I googled... It showed the escort's face and description..and indicated which city she is in..
After this, he admitted that he saved this number but he denied that he contacted or acted upon and he says he is innocent..
Day after I found out about this contact saved on his phone.. He said that he had to attend a staff meeting at 9 pm, he showed me his coworker's txt msg.. It was hard to believe bc it was his day off and it was at the bar?? Anyways I let him go because he said it was mandatory.. My husband was sick due to cold and we did not go anywhere that day except for the bank.. He says he really hate to go to this meeting.. We went to the bank to deposit some cash that we saved around 7 pm and came back hime.Around 8:54 pm, he headed out to attend his staff meeting. I texted him around 10 pm he called me within 10 seconds.. He says he is with his coworkers at the bar and he is heading out to pick up his coworker Andy who was lost and could not find a bar.. I totally believed that he went to the meeting that night, he returned back home around 11:30 pm which was about 2.5 hrs..anyways, i just wanted to make sure he really went to the meeting and I just txt this Andy guy Impersonating my husband. Andy replied and he says that he didn't attend a meeting and asked if my husband attended so i figured he did not go to the meeting.
I also checked his bank account ( joint acct) and found out he withdrew 140$ after we deposted money that night.. So he prob withdrew after heading out to the meeting.. I confronted him again regarding this with the evidence I found.. He says that he went to the meeting, he insisted for two hrs and then he finally admitted that he didnt go to the meeting and he says he just got lazy and did not want to go so just stayed in a car parked in our neighbourhood for whole 2.5 hrs... I questioned him why he withdrew cash we just deposited, he says he did that bc he thought he might need cash for the meetng bc it was being held at the bar??!! Really!! You need $140?? I got so furious and I asked him to show me that cash bc he must have it since he did not go to the meeting n just stayed in the car... He says he used that cash to pay for the gas.... So he only has 60$ left..
I cannot trust him and I think he is lying, he is keep making up stories.
All the Bars accept credit cards why withdraw cash??? And why would anyone withdraw cash for filling up gas? I think he lied to me abd went to see the escort he saved on his phone contact list and was on the recently used contact list history! I searched that the escorts ask you to ne clean before coming to them so maybe thats why he wanted to do brazilian waxing since he is so hairly down there!! My husband begged me again to forgive him when I told him I am going to see my lawer and divorce him...he says he is innocent and he swore to god he never contacted the escort and he doesn't know why its on recently used contact history.....
He thinks I am crazy and over thinking things and making it a big deal.. But would anyone lie about going to the staff meeting if they did not attend and stayed in a car for 2.5 hrs!!?? Why would he withdraw cash if he were to stay in a car resting????! I have no actual evidence that he really went to see the escort., maybe he just went to the bar to meet with the escort prior to their actual appointment?? I read on some eacort website that some agencies requires the client to meet with an escort 1-2 days prior to their appr date??
Please help me.. Am I just over thinking??? I really think he is lying to me on everything n making fool out of me.... Are these all coincidents??? I really cannot trust my husband anymore and I cannot let him go to his business trips anymore..i can't stop thinking about it.. Please give me advice. I an seriously thinking about getting divorce but I feel really sorry for my 6 months old baby girl.
I think my husband is a sex addict ( he watches porn almost everyday) and a biggest liar and he will repeat this for rest of his life and I don't want to live my life investigating him and suspect him.. He has a history of cheating on me before we got married...
Two weeks ago, my phone battery died so I decided to use my husband's phone to search for something on internet. I found out that he has been searching for escorts in the area we are living in and few other cities close by. Most of his searches were in a area that he goes on business trip. My husband has business trip every year in that area and I am assuming he is looking for escort to have an affair while he is on business trip this November. I also found out that he has been searching for places for brazillian waxing.. I found a text message he sent to a lady who does brazilian waxing who claims that she is "strictly mobile"....This was really chocking as he never showed any interest on this waxing and never discussed anythinh about this with me..
And I also found out that he ordered bunch of stuff from the website called, "wish".. He rarely order anything online.. He ordered see through panties, see through gashion gay pants (it was the description of the pants)..he never mentioned anything about this to me either..and I found out he has been searching for hotel in a city which he will be going for his business trip in november.. His company picks the hotel every yr and they pay for it.. So this was very suspicious that he has been searching for hotels in that city on dates of his business trip..
I have been having fights with my husband because I caught him watching porn and I found the internet history that he has visited "****** *******" website, where married person goes on to have an affair.....this happened about 7 months ago while I was still pregnant. I confronted him and he says he watches porn just like all other man and he kept denying that he never went on ****** ******* site.. I did not believe him but I decided to forgive him once..
Anyways I confronted him about the prostitue search, Brazilian waxing, and ordering those see through underwears....he denied doing any of these at first, but he admitted when I showed him the evidence. I told him this is totally unacceptable and that he is married man with 6 months old baby..
I said that its weird how he would want to get brazillian waxing done all of the sudden, orders see through underwears ( it was delievered and he hide them in his closet) and searching for hotels and escorts in a city he will be travelling in Novemember..
He says im misunderstanding everything and overthinking things. He never intends to meet any of those escorts, he did that search just to find his clients who he thinks is an escort???
And he found her ot sometning and he did that just for fun and by curiousity but didn't mean to meet them or anything bad..he wanted to get brazilian waxing done bc his down there is too hairy and it makes him sweat a lot so he tried to shave it himself and failed..so he was seeking professional help and the see through underwears only for functional reasons bc its more breathable and loose fitting than his cotton underwears?? Really? I think cotton ones are more breathable than nylon see through panties..he insisted that all these are just coincidence and I am over thinking..
I found out he has STD ( herpes virus) from 2 yrs ago.. He accused me that I got him an virus but he went to the clinic to check and I was clean. Now I am assuming he might have been having affairs with escorts in the past as well.. He has been going to business trips every yr for past 3 yrs...
I was so shocked and speechless that he has been searching for prostitues in our city and cities close by.. Now i do not trust my husband and I do not want him to go on a business trip this november.. I told him I cannot live with a liar and a man who searches for escort when he is married...he begged me for forgiveness.. I forgave him again....
After this incident, i found out that he saved the escorts phone number on his phone, contact name was " brazillian buddy". It was on his recently used contact list which he cannot manually delete.. I searched the number and found out it was number for prostitue in our city we live in....i cried after finding this out.. There is no way that this number was on recently used list if he did not call or txt within few days...... I confronted him with this, he denies again and he says he has no idea who "brazillian buddy" is he says it might be brazillian waxing lady. After I showed him what I googled... It showed the escort's face and description..and indicated which city she is in..
After this, he admitted that he saved this number but he denied that he contacted or acted upon and he says he is innocent..
Day after I found out about this contact saved on his phone.. He said that he had to attend a staff meeting at 9 pm, he showed me his coworker's txt msg.. It was hard to believe bc it was his day off and it was at the bar?? Anyways I let him go because he said it was mandatory.. My husband was sick due to cold and we did not go anywhere that day except for the bank.. He says he really hate to go to this meeting.. We went to the bank to deposit some cash that we saved around 7 pm and came back hime.Around 8:54 pm, he headed out to attend his staff meeting. I texted him around 10 pm he called me within 10 seconds.. He says he is with his coworkers at the bar and he is heading out to pick up his coworker Andy who was lost and could not find a bar.. I totally believed that he went to the meeting that night, he returned back home around 11:30 pm which was about 2.5 hrs..anyways, i just wanted to make sure he really went to the meeting and I just txt this Andy guy Impersonating my husband. Andy replied and he says that he didn't attend a meeting and asked if my husband attended so i figured he did not go to the meeting.
I also checked his bank account ( joint acct) and found out he withdrew 140$ after we deposted money that night.. So he prob withdrew after heading out to the meeting.. I confronted him again regarding this with the evidence I found.. He says that he went to the meeting, he insisted for two hrs and then he finally admitted that he didnt go to the meeting and he says he just got lazy and did not want to go so just stayed in a car parked in our neighbourhood for whole 2.5 hrs... I questioned him why he withdrew cash we just deposited, he says he did that bc he thought he might need cash for the meetng bc it was being held at the bar??!! Really!! You need $140?? I got so furious and I asked him to show me that cash bc he must have it since he did not go to the meeting n just stayed in the car... He says he used that cash to pay for the gas.... So he only has 60$ left..
I cannot trust him and I think he is lying, he is keep making up stories.
All the Bars accept credit cards why withdraw cash??? And why would anyone withdraw cash for filling up gas? I think he lied to me abd went to see the escort he saved on his phone contact list and was on the recently used contact list history! I searched that the escorts ask you to ne clean before coming to them so maybe thats why he wanted to do brazilian waxing since he is so hairly down there!! My husband begged me again to forgive him when I told him I am going to see my lawer and divorce him...he says he is innocent and he swore to god he never contacted the escort and he doesn't know why its on recently used contact history.....
He thinks I am crazy and over thinking things and making it a big deal.. But would anyone lie about going to the staff meeting if they did not attend and stayed in a car for 2.5 hrs!!?? Why would he withdraw cash if he were to stay in a car resting????! I have no actual evidence that he really went to see the escort., maybe he just went to the bar to meet with the escort prior to their actual appointment?? I read on some eacort website that some agencies requires the client to meet with an escort 1-2 days prior to their appr date??
Please help me.. Am I just over thinking??? I really think he is lying to me on everything n making fool out of me.... Are these all coincidents??? I really cannot trust my husband anymore and I cannot let him go to his business trips anymore..i can't stop thinking about it.. Please give me advice. I an seriously thinking about getting divorce but I feel really sorry for my 6 months old baby girl.
I think my husband is a sex addict ( he watches porn almost everyday) and a biggest liar and he will repeat this for rest of his life and I don't want to live my life investigating him and suspect him.. He has a history of cheating on me before we got married...
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