I'm 32 and I've only had 2 girlfriends. I don't lack confidence although I'm not the most outgoing guy. I'm good looking, intelligent, interesting, and I believe I have a lot to offer. It baffles me how someone like me finds it so difficult to maintain the interest of women. They treat me like I'm some kind of loser, but I don't feel like a loser at all. Either that, or they put me in the dreaded friendzone, which of course is not about being friends. My friends all think i'm cool, and I feel like a confident guy.
I'm fed up that so many women I've met have shown more interest towards thugs with tattoos and other idiots, rather than a normal guy like me. I've tried to figure out why this is, and the only logical conclusion is that they're masochists. Many of them are ridiculously picky and cynical.
A year ago I stumbled across a forum where they talk about women from various parts of the world. I thought it was a travel site at first, and so when I saw what it was about I ignored it. But then one day out of curiosity I checked it out, and I became intrigued. They were talking about the qualities that they believe foreign women have, and how happy a lot of men are when they travel abroad to meet them.
At the time I had little experience or opinions about that, but what I did know is that different cultures give rise to different outlooks, and that the women that I tend to meet are incompatible with me, and they lack the qualities that I'm looking for.
So, a few months ago I went to the Philippines. If I was to write about what that was like it would take pages and pages, but let's just say that it was amazing. Maybe it was the excitement of being in a different environment. I don't know. But I had a great experience, totally different from back home. It was very easy to meet women and they were very interested in me, and they appreciated me. I met a few girls that I would gladly see again.
My philosophy is as follows. If you're not happy in your situation, take responsibility and change it. Let others do whatever they feel is right for them, and focus on doing what you think is right for you. Everyone has their own criteria for what they're looking for. It would make no sense to stay in a place where I don't feel fulfilled.
I really want to go back there permanently. I realize that it's not a good idea to go and live there just to find women. I know that. That's why I've taken that into consideration. I don't have any commitments or responsibilities at home, and I don't feel like there's anything keeping me here. I've looked into the culture of the Philippines and it does seem like a place that I could get used to. There are other things about the country which I like and I'm willing to go down there a few times and see what's what. I am also willing to learn the language. I work from home, so I also have flexibility. What I'm saying is that if I go to live there, it will be a decision based on much consideration.
Nevertheless, I'm not 100% sure. I always like to think long and hard before making decisions. So I'm here to ask for advice so that I can take it into consideration, and hopefully make a decision that is right for me.
I'm fed up that so many women I've met have shown more interest towards thugs with tattoos and other idiots, rather than a normal guy like me. I've tried to figure out why this is, and the only logical conclusion is that they're masochists. Many of them are ridiculously picky and cynical.
A year ago I stumbled across a forum where they talk about women from various parts of the world. I thought it was a travel site at first, and so when I saw what it was about I ignored it. But then one day out of curiosity I checked it out, and I became intrigued. They were talking about the qualities that they believe foreign women have, and how happy a lot of men are when they travel abroad to meet them.
At the time I had little experience or opinions about that, but what I did know is that different cultures give rise to different outlooks, and that the women that I tend to meet are incompatible with me, and they lack the qualities that I'm looking for.
So, a few months ago I went to the Philippines. If I was to write about what that was like it would take pages and pages, but let's just say that it was amazing. Maybe it was the excitement of being in a different environment. I don't know. But I had a great experience, totally different from back home. It was very easy to meet women and they were very interested in me, and they appreciated me. I met a few girls that I would gladly see again.
My philosophy is as follows. If you're not happy in your situation, take responsibility and change it. Let others do whatever they feel is right for them, and focus on doing what you think is right for you. Everyone has their own criteria for what they're looking for. It would make no sense to stay in a place where I don't feel fulfilled.
I really want to go back there permanently. I realize that it's not a good idea to go and live there just to find women. I know that. That's why I've taken that into consideration. I don't have any commitments or responsibilities at home, and I don't feel like there's anything keeping me here. I've looked into the culture of the Philippines and it does seem like a place that I could get used to. There are other things about the country which I like and I'm willing to go down there a few times and see what's what. I am also willing to learn the language. I work from home, so I also have flexibility. What I'm saying is that if I go to live there, it will be a decision based on much consideration.
Nevertheless, I'm not 100% sure. I always like to think long and hard before making decisions. So I'm here to ask for advice so that I can take it into consideration, and hopefully make a decision that is right for me.
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