I've just started seeing a guy, we're about 2 weeks into it, so still really early days.
We've had a few dates, and in person he is AMAZING and I like him a lot.
He made me think he's looking for something serious with me by introducing me to his friends, kissing me in front of them, being really affectionate.
The problem is with his online communication, and to an extent, communication in person too. I'm not being needy or messaging him too much. I'll message him every 2-3 days, asking how he's doing, see when he's free to meet up... but it is now always me doing the asking, and always me talking first! It's making me feel like he's not interested and making my mind go crazy wondering why, as he's so nice in person to me..
When I message him, asking how his day's been, I'll get a blunt reply. He won't ask how mine's been, and gives me nothing to work with, just a smiley face or a thumbs up if I tell him anything about my day or anything else.
He's not overly busy, and I'm not expecting long paragraphs or anything, just something a little more than "I'm fine" you know? How can I encourage him to talk more without seeming needy or controlling, as it's so early days and I really don't want to ruin this over the lengths of his messages when things are so good in person.. Any advice?
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