Here is my situation. I am married and I've had issues with my wife keeping her word. We would both agree to things like we would not masterbate, watch porn things like that. I would keep up my end of the deal but I would catch my wife doing these things and she always makes it sound like it's not a big deal. This has gone on to include many things like us agreeing not to delete text messages or FB messages and to keep our accounts open to the other so we can be open and honest. I have done all of these things but I have caught her also deleting her messages. When I confronted her she says She just likes to keep it clean even though we had an agreement. Then it gets worse. She cheated on me and I found out and confronted her. She lied at first but then admitted it. I tried to forgive her and she agreed to have zero contact with him and delete him off FB. Then I discovered she did not delete it, and confronted her. She again said she would. Then I found sh e would unblock him, talk to him and delete his messages. I confronted her again and again she promises to not do it again. then I recently discovered that she unblocked him again, and I confronted her. She says she decided it was ok because it is her choice not to talk to him so he doesn't need to be blocked. We got in a huge fight. I don't feel like I can trust her at all. Then to make it the worst while at my daughters graduation ceremony (not her daughter, previous marriage) I found her texting him again. I confronted her and she says he was just checking in on her. But she promised to have zero contact. She tells me I am wrong and none of this is a big deal. Any I crazy to think that when you tell someone you are going to or not do something, that is what you do and not to have all of these exceptions!? Am I crazy? Please help!!!!
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