Me and my ex are trying to work on building our relationship back and have been for the past 6 months. Its her fault it ended due to treating me like **** and seeing as we have been friends for the best part of 5 years i've given her the benefit of the doubt and chance after chance to try prove to me she can change for the better.
I've got my head screwed on financially and with life. I've been paying into a private pension since I was 17 (early retirement come at me!!!) and I'm about 60% of the way to having my target for a deposit on a mortgage.
She on the other hand chooses to do drugs every other weekend and lives off her wage month in month out, putting nothing to savings.
I've been telling her for about 4 months she needs to change her habits if she wants me to commit to a serious relationship or even contemplate doing 'nice things' with her.
She just doesn't get my point i'm trying to make although I have strong feelings for her and she claims to have strong feelings for me.
Also, she works in a nursery, I know its very harsh but if I anonymously rang the nursery to inform one of their staff was on drugs some weekends, maybe that could be a wake up call that her habits will have bigger repercussions on her life in terms of career, as no doubt they would be subject to a drug test.
I know if parent, I wouldn't want my child being left under the supervision of someone that does drugs recreationally.
Any advice???? I just want her to grow up if she wants it to work. We're both 21.
Thanks
EDIT: Apologies for my poor English..
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