Been married 23 years, second marriage, we are both in our 50's, I am not heavy and I do keep myself up. Husband is overweight and balding.
Even before we married my husband has got the most lusty eyes for other women. As a man in his 30's if some girl walked by and I was speaking to him he would not even hear me. We have talked, I have tried to make him more aware. I have told him how I feel when he is locked on some chick.
Before we married and I noticed this I asked him if he was thinking sexual thoughts of these women and he said that he had plenty of time as a single man to do this and hard habits were hard to break. I don't think he ever has had any intentions to break those habits. I think they are so much of him and that he thinks I am just complaining, that there is nothing wrong with his behavior.
This is a man that shows no interest in me except to have dinner with or have a drink with (which he is fine to do by himself too). The only real interest he shows in me is for sex.
He has had 3 emotional affairs in our marriage which we received counseling for and he seemed remorseful but nothing changed anything.
I know I am not alone in this. I see my other friends' husbands who are very much into their own stuff and do not take the time for their wives either. Yet, I have one friend to say that their husbands have had emotional affairs, affairs or have even been as hooked on watching the azz of another woman like my husband.
We went to the beach recently and all my husband could do was watch for chicks. I was so disgusted, so fed up.
Just wondering what you ladies do about this?
Even before we married my husband has got the most lusty eyes for other women. As a man in his 30's if some girl walked by and I was speaking to him he would not even hear me. We have talked, I have tried to make him more aware. I have told him how I feel when he is locked on some chick.
Before we married and I noticed this I asked him if he was thinking sexual thoughts of these women and he said that he had plenty of time as a single man to do this and hard habits were hard to break. I don't think he ever has had any intentions to break those habits. I think they are so much of him and that he thinks I am just complaining, that there is nothing wrong with his behavior.
This is a man that shows no interest in me except to have dinner with or have a drink with (which he is fine to do by himself too). The only real interest he shows in me is for sex.
He has had 3 emotional affairs in our marriage which we received counseling for and he seemed remorseful but nothing changed anything.
I know I am not alone in this. I see my other friends' husbands who are very much into their own stuff and do not take the time for their wives either. Yet, I have one friend to say that their husbands have had emotional affairs, affairs or have even been as hooked on watching the azz of another woman like my husband.
We went to the beach recently and all my husband could do was watch for chicks. I was so disgusted, so fed up.
Just wondering what you ladies do about this?
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