I have been dating a girl for a year and a half and we plan on moving in together in October and getting married sometime in 2016 and everything is going great. However, her brother comes over every Saturday night and stays until 11:00 and it causes me a lot of stress and anxiety. He is a poor soul who lives with his parents and has been doing this the past 15 years. My girlfriend feels like she can't cut him off but she doesn't want me to leave when he comes over either. She has arranged for us to have 1 Saturday a month to ourselves which I appreciate but being around him still stresses me out, he is an extreme introvert and is happy to sit and stare at his phone. We are talking about going to counseling which I am all for, I would like a professional to either say yes it's ok to go do something else while they visit or for me to reailze how good I have it with my girlfriend and suck it up. Interested to see if anyone has been in a similar situation.
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