Hope I"m allowed to post this here, as I am most assuredly female. LOL!
My man is 41. He had abused drugs in his younger years, but has been clean for nearly 8. (Long before I met him.) Almost 2 years ago he had a scare where he thought he was having a heart attack and his doctor had him do the test where they go in through your thigh artery and look at your heart with a camera (sorry, don't remember what it was called....we hadn't been dating long when that happened.) The doctor thought it was a good idea because of his past history with drug use (marajuana, prescription, and some lesser street drugs.)
Anyway, everything turned out fine, and the doc was even impressed with how it all looked.
When we first started being intimate, he would have some performance issues.....occasionally losing his E. He always said it was because I intimidated him (little ole ME????)
But over the past year or so things have gone at a steady decline. His drive is almost non-existant now. I'm lucky to have any action once a week. There have been times that I have "orally manipulated" certain things for a good 30-45 seconds with ZERO response. (And in the past he told me that is definitely one of my strengths.)
He will lose his E at the drop of a hat now. I can't possibly intimidate him anymore since we know each other so well. (We live together now.) He did mention my weight gain (15 pounds) as a potential reason, but I honestly think he's just grasping at straws.
I've begged him to go to the doctor, but he "hasn't had time" to make the appointment yet.
Is this an age thing? I think he has a physical issue......low T or something. He has mentioned a "pain" that happens every so often in the family jewel department. He himself has gained 30 pounds, and also complains about feeling tired. But he attributes it all to "age."
I know he NEEDS to get to a doc. I'm trying to gently convince him to go. Am I overreacting? Need dude input! THanks!
My man is 41. He had abused drugs in his younger years, but has been clean for nearly 8. (Long before I met him.) Almost 2 years ago he had a scare where he thought he was having a heart attack and his doctor had him do the test where they go in through your thigh artery and look at your heart with a camera (sorry, don't remember what it was called....we hadn't been dating long when that happened.) The doctor thought it was a good idea because of his past history with drug use (marajuana, prescription, and some lesser street drugs.)
Anyway, everything turned out fine, and the doc was even impressed with how it all looked.
When we first started being intimate, he would have some performance issues.....occasionally losing his E. He always said it was because I intimidated him (little ole ME????)
But over the past year or so things have gone at a steady decline. His drive is almost non-existant now. I'm lucky to have any action once a week. There have been times that I have "orally manipulated" certain things for a good 30-45 seconds with ZERO response. (And in the past he told me that is definitely one of my strengths.)
He will lose his E at the drop of a hat now. I can't possibly intimidate him anymore since we know each other so well. (We live together now.) He did mention my weight gain (15 pounds) as a potential reason, but I honestly think he's just grasping at straws.
I've begged him to go to the doctor, but he "hasn't had time" to make the appointment yet.
Is this an age thing? I think he has a physical issue......low T or something. He has mentioned a "pain" that happens every so often in the family jewel department. He himself has gained 30 pounds, and also complains about feeling tired. But he attributes it all to "age."
I know he NEEDS to get to a doc. I'm trying to gently convince him to go. Am I overreacting? Need dude input! THanks!
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