I recently had a casual sex relationship with a friend of mine for a few months and then things ended because i started to get feelings for him. After this the friendship was pretty non existent and we had a bit of an argument and stopped talking.
I started a specific Facebook group for my age group for a specific interest of mine and by pure fluke, a girl he is friends with joined it. I don't think she has any idea who i am and i have never met her, but i know of her because he mentioned her before.
I was planning a meetup in a few weeks and i think this girl who knows him is coming. After a few weeks of not talking i reached out to the guy telling him how she had joined and as they are close friends i thought there may be a possibility she would invite him or he and i could run into each other. I don't like bad feeling with people or awkward situations, so i just told him if this happened i hope there would be no issues between us.
He came back saying there was no hard feelings and he is sure if we ran into each other we would have a nice friendly talk. He then requested the group himself. I wasn't sure what to do and it took me back, but seems i am a nice person, i accepted the request and we also became Facebook friends again.
I remained talking friendly with him and then he told me that he has actually met someone. I thought i was over him, but as soon as he told me this i felt my heart sink. I am now at a bit of a loss on what to do. I feel like i still have feelings for him and it is going to be hard seeing him if he comes to the meetups, and he obviously has access to see when and where they are. It is also going to hurt even more i think seeing him with another girl if he was to bring his new lady.
Any thoughts on what i should do?
I started a specific Facebook group for my age group for a specific interest of mine and by pure fluke, a girl he is friends with joined it. I don't think she has any idea who i am and i have never met her, but i know of her because he mentioned her before.
I was planning a meetup in a few weeks and i think this girl who knows him is coming. After a few weeks of not talking i reached out to the guy telling him how she had joined and as they are close friends i thought there may be a possibility she would invite him or he and i could run into each other. I don't like bad feeling with people or awkward situations, so i just told him if this happened i hope there would be no issues between us.
He came back saying there was no hard feelings and he is sure if we ran into each other we would have a nice friendly talk. He then requested the group himself. I wasn't sure what to do and it took me back, but seems i am a nice person, i accepted the request and we also became Facebook friends again.
I remained talking friendly with him and then he told me that he has actually met someone. I thought i was over him, but as soon as he told me this i felt my heart sink. I am now at a bit of a loss on what to do. I feel like i still have feelings for him and it is going to be hard seeing him if he comes to the meetups, and he obviously has access to see when and where they are. It is also going to hurt even more i think seeing him with another girl if he was to bring his new lady.
Any thoughts on what i should do?
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