Hello,
This is my first post on any site like this. I am 26 years old. I grew up 3 houses away from my wife. We met for the first time when we were 12, were best friends immediately, and have been dating/engaged/married since we were about 19.
I have a pretty direct question. If details are needed please ask for them.
We were happy. She cheated on me (sexting, and everything but actually ***king him) lasting about a month, starting 4 months ago. I wanted to leave, she asked me to stay and work on it, and I did.
She kept coming up with excuses to not work on stuff, which bothered me. Either "only with a therapist" (the idea of which she knows I hate), but when I agreed it was "not during this time", and then etc etc.
Eventually we had a big fight 2 months into it and she said we need to file for divorce. We went to a therapist right before this, his advice worked for a while, and then due to our own frustration we had this fight.
I said no, she said yes etc etc.
The day after she left our home she started back up with this other guy. That was 2 months ago. During this time she has led me on in many ways, and I feel like a chump to be honest.
I think I am half typing this out to just say it, so I am sorry if I am wasting anyone's time, but we are getting a divorce and I can't help but feel like even though she is being so cruel, that it is inevitable that she is going to quickly realize she has made a mistake. My friends tell me to just give her space and wait, but I don't think that I will be able to forgive her if she continues down this path.
Any insight at all would just be awesome. I do not think about much else.
This is my first post on any site like this. I am 26 years old. I grew up 3 houses away from my wife. We met for the first time when we were 12, were best friends immediately, and have been dating/engaged/married since we were about 19.
I have a pretty direct question. If details are needed please ask for them.
We were happy. She cheated on me (sexting, and everything but actually ***king him) lasting about a month, starting 4 months ago. I wanted to leave, she asked me to stay and work on it, and I did.
She kept coming up with excuses to not work on stuff, which bothered me. Either "only with a therapist" (the idea of which she knows I hate), but when I agreed it was "not during this time", and then etc etc.
Eventually we had a big fight 2 months into it and she said we need to file for divorce. We went to a therapist right before this, his advice worked for a while, and then due to our own frustration we had this fight.
I said no, she said yes etc etc.
The day after she left our home she started back up with this other guy. That was 2 months ago. During this time she has led me on in many ways, and I feel like a chump to be honest.
I think I am half typing this out to just say it, so I am sorry if I am wasting anyone's time, but we are getting a divorce and I can't help but feel like even though she is being so cruel, that it is inevitable that she is going to quickly realize she has made a mistake. My friends tell me to just give her space and wait, but I don't think that I will be able to forgive her if she continues down this path.
Any insight at all would just be awesome. I do not think about much else.
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