Okay, so I've been seeing my boyfriend for around 6 months completely, and whilst I trust him completely, and her completely, I'm not sure if it's petty that I have a problem with his so called-ex? (They messed around for about 2 years, so whilst not labelled as boyfriend/girlfriend, I would still say they were pretty much exclusive).
It's not really the fact that I have a problem with them hanging out, although I do get jealous easily, like we all do, it's the fact that he puts me in positions where I have to hang out with her... She's a lovely person to me, but definitely not the sort of person I gel with, and when my boyfriend invites me out with his friends I'm always either stuck with the lads, or I'll end up talking to her and her female friends... which makes me feel really awkward. She talks to me on Facebook, and asks me if she comes back to university, (she's on leave of absence) will I hang out with her, be her friend etc? And I feel obliged to say yes because of my boyfriend, even though, I really feel like we have nothing in common and it makes me feel kind of weird hanging out with someone he was practically with for two years.
I know, if he were in my situation, he would probably feel the same, as me and my ex never speak, and he has already expressed how he'd never like to meet him? But I don't know if i'm just being silly, or whether I should say something to him? If so, how do I approach it? I'm trying to be civil, and whilst she's nice to me, there's certain characteristics I've noticed in her that I'm really not fond of... Just not sure what to do!
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