Good evening all
Unfortunate situation here.
I sometimes buy my wife jewelry - for birthdays, Christmas, whatever. Nothing that represents a significant amount of money, but I like getting her nice things.
So today while I was out, a card came in the mail to me from Tiffany's. She assumed it was an add, and opened it - and it was thanking me for my "recent purchase". Thing is, I haven't bought anything in several months. Worse there was a good sized money withdraw from our account on the checking statement she had just seen.
Now my wife is suspicious.
So,I don't know why the card came now - I guess they are just trying to remind me to buy more. I haven't bought anything there in months. The money withdrawal is legit - but not easily verifiable - had to do with repairs on our airplane.
I think she mostly believes that I'm not up to anything, but I'm not sure if I should tell her how badly hurt I am by her thoughts? She has always seemed to trust me completely in the past - as I have always trusted her.
Why would something underhanded be her first thought? Why not think I was planning a surprise. Or that the card (as is true) was from an earlier purchase.
In fact does she really think I'm to stupid to be able to hide a jewelry purchase if I wanted to?
Does it take so little to make her doubt me? Its clear that even after showing her all the credit cards, and the spreadsheet where I showed that the money was spent on the airplane, she isn't quite convinced. She certainly has in now way suggested that her accusations were unreasonable.
Meanwhile I'm deeply saddened. Trust is so important to me - it is an absolutely integral part of love. W'd been doing very well over the last few weeks.
And Tiffany's isn't getting my business again :FIREdevil:
Unfortunate situation here.
I sometimes buy my wife jewelry - for birthdays, Christmas, whatever. Nothing that represents a significant amount of money, but I like getting her nice things.
So today while I was out, a card came in the mail to me from Tiffany's. She assumed it was an add, and opened it - and it was thanking me for my "recent purchase". Thing is, I haven't bought anything in several months. Worse there was a good sized money withdraw from our account on the checking statement she had just seen.
Now my wife is suspicious.
So,I don't know why the card came now - I guess they are just trying to remind me to buy more. I haven't bought anything there in months. The money withdrawal is legit - but not easily verifiable - had to do with repairs on our airplane.
I think she mostly believes that I'm not up to anything, but I'm not sure if I should tell her how badly hurt I am by her thoughts? She has always seemed to trust me completely in the past - as I have always trusted her.
Why would something underhanded be her first thought? Why not think I was planning a surprise. Or that the card (as is true) was from an earlier purchase.
In fact does she really think I'm to stupid to be able to hide a jewelry purchase if I wanted to?
Does it take so little to make her doubt me? Its clear that even after showing her all the credit cards, and the spreadsheet where I showed that the money was spent on the airplane, she isn't quite convinced. She certainly has in now way suggested that her accusations were unreasonable.
Meanwhile I'm deeply saddened. Trust is so important to me - it is an absolutely integral part of love. W'd been doing very well over the last few weeks.
And Tiffany's isn't getting my business again :FIREdevil:
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