Good evening all
sorry for so many threads on this but its is a huge issue for me, and I think other people as well.
Should "LD" be considered an orientation - like straight, gay, etc. It seems to be a fundamentally different reaction to sex from HD people.
A gay person cannot become straight. They can't be convinced - it is simply not the way they are constructed. A gay person might even be able to have an orgasm with an opposite sex partner, but they are not straight and are never going to be straight. If they are in a relationship with an opposite-sex partner, they will never be interested in an active sex life.
Maybe LD is just as basic and immutable.
For HD people a lack of a good sex life is enough to make them miserable, no matter how wonderful everything else is. To a LD person it is "just sex" - a minor detail in life.
Maybe realizing that your partner is LD should be viewed the same way as realizing that they are the wrong orientation? Not their fault, not something they can ever change.
sorry for so many threads on this but its is a huge issue for me, and I think other people as well.
Should "LD" be considered an orientation - like straight, gay, etc. It seems to be a fundamentally different reaction to sex from HD people.
A gay person cannot become straight. They can't be convinced - it is simply not the way they are constructed. A gay person might even be able to have an orgasm with an opposite sex partner, but they are not straight and are never going to be straight. If they are in a relationship with an opposite-sex partner, they will never be interested in an active sex life.
Maybe LD is just as basic and immutable.
For HD people a lack of a good sex life is enough to make them miserable, no matter how wonderful everything else is. To a LD person it is "just sex" - a minor detail in life.
Maybe realizing that your partner is LD should be viewed the same way as realizing that they are the wrong orientation? Not their fault, not something they can ever change.
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