And I rejected her, she says I am thinking about myself and not her
Basically we have been together 4 years, been a little busy last year with working but in terms of relationship outside of sex things have been fine she has just been off sex for no reason, there is still kissing going on and cuddling no signs of any cracks, we still tell each other we love each other, and do things couple do its just lack of inimacy, suddenly 3 times in last 2 weeks she suddenly has just expected sex for first time in a year and I said no, not as I didn't want it but I wasnt in the mood because I am so used to not having, today I reject her and she claims that I am only thinking of myself and shes made a lot of effort to give me intimacy and I have given her none(despite me making a lot of effort early on when she stopped wanting sex)
I love her, and she does love me I do not worry about that but she is being annoying that she is basically having selfish thoughs, I respected her when she didn't want it and would rather just have a special night or two before we get back into a regular or semi regular routine
Just wanted to talk about this and get some feedback from others.
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