I woke up feeling really good initially. Now I'm sad. I really like this guy, I assumed the feeling was mutual (up until recently I'm pretty sure it was). In the beginning he texted everyday and called often. He would make the effort to see me. Whenever I tried to make plans he would refuse them and say he'll sort it. Now the texts and calls have slowed down a lot.
We take it in turns to initiate but the conversations are not the same. Two weeks ago for the first time in ages we had a long phone conversation. A couple days later I ask when I'm going to see him, he takes like half a day to respond to say he's busy this week. I didn't sweat it, I responded to his text as normal. We started playing this question game via text which lasted a couple of days, so kinda thought things were improving.
I decided to call him a couple days ago and there was no answer, this is like the first time in 6 months he hasn't returned my call or anything. He texted me the next day, but I felt like I was being fobbed off to be honest. Again I was cool about it.
I stumbled across his online profile (aka went straight to his page) to find he's recently updated his profile, well completely revamped it from top to bottom. I've always known I'm not the only one he's dating which is okay I guess. He's the only guy I've been interested of late, so in a way you could say I've only been focusing on him. I've never liked more than one person at once.
I'm going to take a step back and see what happens now. I feel like this is a recurring thing for me unfortunately. At least this time I know I've made an effort, it just doesn't seem like it's reciprocated right now.
Any advice would be appreciated!
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