I'm going to make this asshort as I possibly can, thank you in advance to any replies! 
I met someone on here in December and we got onreally well and became extremely close. Things got quite messy, we startedarguing a lot and it never really went back to how it was. He met someone elseand 'fell in love' with her and had replaced me basically. During that time Iwas hurt, and I had also had a close friend and he comforted me which wasextremely lovely of him. He has feelings for me, and I do really like him http://ift.tt/1hpegJtHowever,things couldn't work out with the other guy and his 'new found love' becauseshe has a strict culture etc etc, and we started speaking more again and havegotten close again. However, he wants to be more than friends – not right now,but in due course. He doesn't want to just be friends. I'm stuck because I dohave feelings for him, we were really close and we get on well, but he wontaccept being just friends. But guy B has been there for me through all of themess and I cant hurt his feelings because he means a lot to me.
I'vewaffled, maybe I just needed to get my thoughts down, but ah – advice?
Ohand, the thing is, he still cares about the girl he fell in love with whichdoes make me feel **** at times. Of course I understand, but do I really wantto be second best? Knowing he replaced me and would be in a happy relationshipif culture was never an issue? And its also weird, but he wants me to wait for him to get over thosefeelings - apparently he'll get over them very quickly and is on the verge ofdoing so, but then he cant just accept a friendship? It's all so messy and Idon't know what to do. Meanwhile guy B is just there and ah, life.
I met someone on here in December and we got onreally well and became extremely close. Things got quite messy, we startedarguing a lot and it never really went back to how it was. He met someone elseand 'fell in love' with her and had replaced me basically. During that time Iwas hurt, and I had also had a close friend and he comforted me which wasextremely lovely of him. He has feelings for me, and I do really like him http://ift.tt/1hpegJtHowever,things couldn't work out with the other guy and his 'new found love' becauseshe has a strict culture etc etc, and we started speaking more again and havegotten close again. However, he wants to be more than friends – not right now,but in due course. He doesn't want to just be friends. I'm stuck because I dohave feelings for him, we were really close and we get on well, but he wontaccept being just friends. But guy B has been there for me through all of themess and I cant hurt his feelings because he means a lot to me.
I'vewaffled, maybe I just needed to get my thoughts down, but ah – advice?
Ohand, the thing is, he still cares about the girl he fell in love with whichdoes make me feel **** at times. Of course I understand, but do I really wantto be second best? Knowing he replaced me and would be in a happy relationshipif culture was never an issue? And its also weird, but he wants me to wait for him to get over thosefeelings - apparently he'll get over them very quickly and is on the verge ofdoing so, but then he cant just accept a friendship? It's all so messy and Idon't know what to do. Meanwhile guy B is just there and ah, life.
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