I've been in a LDR since last summer. It's across timezones and I stayed with him for two weeks over Christmas and won't see him until June (He doesn't have a passport). We met while at camp.
When I am there he is lovely and really caring. He endured a preg scare with me. He's amazing and pays for everything - refusing my offers etc.
However we don't have ANY date to close the distance. We can't put our relationship on fb (because people are nosey, that seems shady). At the start we would have daily 3hr skype, now I'm lucky if we skype every 3 weeks. We do whatsapp but I just feel he isn't as attentive.
He has a rubbish job but admittedly works all the hours of the day (apparently for our future).
I'm 24 I want to be married in the next three years and I'm not sure if I see this happening due to his immaturity. Even if we did get a life together then I imagine we'd be living pay cheque to pay cheque.
should I break up? What would you do?
When I am there he is lovely and really caring. He endured a preg scare with me. He's amazing and pays for everything - refusing my offers etc.
However we don't have ANY date to close the distance. We can't put our relationship on fb (because people are nosey, that seems shady). At the start we would have daily 3hr skype, now I'm lucky if we skype every 3 weeks. We do whatsapp but I just feel he isn't as attentive.
He has a rubbish job but admittedly works all the hours of the day (apparently for our future).
I'm 24 I want to be married in the next three years and I'm not sure if I see this happening due to his immaturity. Even if we did get a life together then I imagine we'd be living pay cheque to pay cheque.
should I break up? What would you do?
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