I am a 22 year old male. I've been single since birth bar for about 2 months (even though that barely counts as a relationship). I've always been an ambitious and independent and self sufficient person but the single life is starting to bore/depress me. I know it shouldn't be this way. I feel as though I'm trapped in this irrational mental cage, which I cannot seem to escape.
Anyway, this isn't a rant, I just want to take some action and pinpoint exactly what has lead to my lack of success in relationships, but I suspect perhaps one, or a combination of, the following:
- Small frame, at only 5'6 ish
- Lack of facial/body attractiveness
- Lack of interesting personality or confidence
- Lack of propensity to approach or make chitchat with strangers
Summary of my current personality
- Ambivert
- Likes being around people, but hates small talk / sharing insignificant anecdotes (terrible combination)
- Will not approach strangers in public unless there is an explicit reason (which does not include dating)
- Very friendly and accommodating when spoken to, but otherwise neutral face looks very bored/depressed (can't help it)
- Dislike conventional socializing methods (partying, clubbing, etc)
- Many interests (perhaps too many) ranging from piano to programming
- Intuitive and technical
- Poor skills in 'chatting up' women I don't know. I am much better at flirting with someone I've known for a while.
With this in mind, I would really appreciate if people could do the following:
- Offer to provide feedback on my appearance (I'll PM you a photo)
- Confirm whether a height of 5'6 is really too short (honesty please)
- Analyse my personality description to point out any significant flaws
- Ask questions to further gauge what my problem is.
Thanks :)
Anyway, this isn't a rant, I just want to take some action and pinpoint exactly what has lead to my lack of success in relationships, but I suspect perhaps one, or a combination of, the following:
- Small frame, at only 5'6 ish
- Lack of facial/body attractiveness
- Lack of interesting personality or confidence
- Lack of propensity to approach or make chitchat with strangers
Summary of my current personality
- Ambivert
- Likes being around people, but hates small talk / sharing insignificant anecdotes (terrible combination)
- Will not approach strangers in public unless there is an explicit reason (which does not include dating)
- Very friendly and accommodating when spoken to, but otherwise neutral face looks very bored/depressed (can't help it)
- Dislike conventional socializing methods (partying, clubbing, etc)
- Many interests (perhaps too many) ranging from piano to programming
- Intuitive and technical
- Poor skills in 'chatting up' women I don't know. I am much better at flirting with someone I've known for a while.
With this in mind, I would really appreciate if people could do the following:
- Offer to provide feedback on my appearance (I'll PM you a photo)
- Confirm whether a height of 5'6 is really too short (honesty please)
- Analyse my personality description to point out any significant flaws
- Ask questions to further gauge what my problem is.
Thanks :)
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