This has happened a multitude of times with this one guy. On our first day of a new module in the second semester he was standoffish. People were saying hi to one another but he didn't acknowledge me. I wasn't bothered at the time at all, I figured he was probably just tired or something. Over the past few months I've caught him staring at me many, many times. I've now learnt to not look back at him (even though I can sense the stare) as when I used to, he'd look away nervously and I felt bad for embarrassing him.
I've spoken to him before and he was very friendly. I don't find him attractive mentally or physically. This is not the cause of my discomfort though. I just feel that the staring is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. I'm getting to know a guy at uni and he hugs me whenever we see each other and I can just feel the other guy staring. I sat next to him in a lecture once and he put his head down on the desk. He just stared at me for the whole time. I could feel it and I glanced at him many times to signal him to stop. He would look away really quickly but carry on staring. He's a nice guy, I'm as friendly to him as I am to everybody else but I fear he's got the wrong end of the stick.
I don't want to lead him on by talking to him or enabling his staring just to end up hurting him as there's no chance of us being an item as I'm not attracted. I feel really bad about this. I don't even want to display my attraction to another guy in front of him. I've tried to not give him any signs or treat him differently but it clearly hasn't worked?
I've spoken to him before and he was very friendly. I don't find him attractive mentally or physically. This is not the cause of my discomfort though. I just feel that the staring is starting to make me feel uncomfortable. I'm getting to know a guy at uni and he hugs me whenever we see each other and I can just feel the other guy staring. I sat next to him in a lecture once and he put his head down on the desk. He just stared at me for the whole time. I could feel it and I glanced at him many times to signal him to stop. He would look away really quickly but carry on staring. He's a nice guy, I'm as friendly to him as I am to everybody else but I fear he's got the wrong end of the stick.
I don't want to lead him on by talking to him or enabling his staring just to end up hurting him as there's no chance of us being an item as I'm not attracted. I feel really bad about this. I don't even want to display my attraction to another guy in front of him. I've tried to not give him any signs or treat him differently but it clearly hasn't worked?
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