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A little background. We have been together for 11 years, married for 3.5 years. We have a 4 year old daughter. We both work full-time, me in the Army, her in Insurance. I'm 28, she is 26. We get along pretty good most of the time.
So basically like the title says my wife does not like to have sex at all. We have sex usually once every couple weeks. The sex is basically "duty sex", it's the same position, same foreplay, same everything, every single time. Has been this way for years, unfortunately. Can't remember the last time I got a BJ or handy.
I like to think I am a good husband, but it obviously isn't doing anything to make our sex life better. I need help with trying to figure out what is wrong with her or me and what I should do about it.
I do all the cooking, all the laundry, I stay home if the kid is sick, I handle the finances, I by her nice gifts for holidays and anniversaries (Coach purse at Christmas, Jewelry for Birthday) I send flowers for now reason, I do all the dishes, I pretty much do as much as I can so she doesn't have to. I am a great father (I had a bad one growing up) I am always home, I do not go out with friends, I don't drink, I am not fat, I treat her like a queen. I just don't know what else to do to be a better husband.
I am starting to get really upset about this. I don't know if she is cheating, doesn't love me anymore, isn't attracted to me, I can't figure it out. She says she just doesn't like to have sex. However, every single time we do she always has at least one O if not 2 or 3.
What is wrong with me??? Please help!!!
A little background. We have been together for 11 years, married for 3.5 years. We have a 4 year old daughter. We both work full-time, me in the Army, her in Insurance. I'm 28, she is 26. We get along pretty good most of the time.
So basically like the title says my wife does not like to have sex at all. We have sex usually once every couple weeks. The sex is basically "duty sex", it's the same position, same foreplay, same everything, every single time. Has been this way for years, unfortunately. Can't remember the last time I got a BJ or handy.
I like to think I am a good husband, but it obviously isn't doing anything to make our sex life better. I need help with trying to figure out what is wrong with her or me and what I should do about it.
I do all the cooking, all the laundry, I stay home if the kid is sick, I handle the finances, I by her nice gifts for holidays and anniversaries (Coach purse at Christmas, Jewelry for Birthday) I send flowers for now reason, I do all the dishes, I pretty much do as much as I can so she doesn't have to. I am a great father (I had a bad one growing up) I am always home, I do not go out with friends, I don't drink, I am not fat, I treat her like a queen. I just don't know what else to do to be a better husband.
I am starting to get really upset about this. I don't know if she is cheating, doesn't love me anymore, isn't attracted to me, I can't figure it out. She says she just doesn't like to have sex. However, every single time we do she always has at least one O if not 2 or 3.
What is wrong with me??? Please help!!!
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