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Lied about past partners to my spouse

Hi everyone. This is my first time posting. I have been with my husband now for 5 yrs. been married 3. We had the conversation early on about the amount of sex partners. I said 2, however it was really 4. Conversation came up years later, again I said 2 because I wasn't sure if he'd notice if I changed it to 4 and didn't want it to be an issue. He told me about sexual experiences and was getting a bit specific. I told him about the 2 that were real relationships for me, the other 2 I dated, but not on a long term or serious basis.

He told me how he slept with certain girls, the casual sex he seemed to consider a lot of those girls as ****ty. I didn't want him to look at me as being the same thing that they were. I tell him the truth about everything, this is like the one lie I've told. I had little experience before him. I never given oral, never had anal, and never even been on top and he had to teach me a lot when we started being intimate. I've never cheated, never spent money behind his back, never lied about where I was, just been so honest with him. I don't want him to start questioning my overall honesty if I come clean and tell him about the other 2 guys. Should I tell him the truth or leave it as is?




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