| This is my first post and I really would like some advice. I have no married friends so i was extremely excited when I found this website. My marriage is definitely crumbling. My husband is starting his own business and he has to do a lot of research. This research has taken one hundred percent of his time, so for the past couple of months that's the topic of all our conversations, and if we are not talking about it we are watching videos on it. I'm not upset with the business or the research it's just that when ever I have a different opinion we end up in a huge argument. I honestly feel like he starts them but I could be wrong maybe it's me and I'm not realising it. Our last argument he told me he hated me hated everything about me. He said he will know longer discuss his research with me, so since that's all he does now we pretty much don't speak at all anymore unless it's about the kids. What I'm truly upset with is this. He has this girl and they call each other cousins but he is not really related to her he is cousins with her sister. Well awhile ago he told me she tried to hook up with him a couple of yea rs ago. I never really thought much about it. Lately though she has been coming over about twice a week to discuss some of the research with him. As a woman and a wife I don't like for my husband to talk to another woman about stuff he doesn't even NOW want to talk to me about. When she comes around he gets all excited and weird. *Everything I say is stupid and everything she says is soooo great! I have expressed my feelings on this several diff times. I honestly believe he does this on purpose. He just brushes it off and say she is his cousin. On the day of our argument he said he likes when she comes over. Later that night we went to his moms party and when he spotted ow sister he didn't hesitate to ask about her. When she finally arrived of course he acted extremely excited to see her. He was also all over me trying to dance acting as if everything was normal. It was hard to just play it cool in front of his family knowing the things he said *and how he made me feel prior to the party. I*don't know what's going on. sorry for the ramble but I don't get it. I don't know if it's me or what. I am four months pregnant so my hormones are all over the place. Up until now I have always trusted my husband. He never gave me any reason to believe otherwise. The OW has never made me feel like she wanted him but it's all still to much. Apparently he told her that she couldn't come over when I'm not there. He told her I was jealous. Which I am, but don't just say I'm jealous without explaining why. It was him who told me she tried to hook up with him a few years back. *I don't know if I'm overreacting but I do feel betrayed and disrespected. We used to be best friends and could talk about anything but lately all we do is fight. He tells me he there is only one type of woman he is interested in and thats me. He said im over reacting and im talking about leaving him for something that doesn't even exist.I want more out of *my marriage. We don't go anywhere any more. Everything has changed and i am not happy.Do you think I'm over reacting, and how can I get control of my marriage? | |||
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