| I have been with a man for 17 months and he always has an excuse why he can't have sex.Everything from "He is not a night person to his arm hurts to his back hurts to he has a herpes out break.I have heard it all.In the mean time I have lost 70 pounds since we met.I have had my hair done wear make up and bought expensive perfume.I have taken him and had his testosterone checked and all is well there.I have done everything especially blame myself and have felt "Not worthy or good enough for him."I am nearly 50 years old and until I met him have always had a great sex life.I am so hurt by his rejection that I feel resentment for him more than anything else.I am financially secure by my own hard work and planning.He lately has had over drafts at the bank I covered.He is a slob with a house full of cats that I am constantly cleaning up after.And he let me know today that I can't even make a pitcher of tea to his liking!I am such a fool for putting mys elf through this.He can't make his penis work and won't use his hands or anything else to satisfy my needs and then tells me "not again" if I try to communicate my hurt to him.What would you suggest.I have cried until I am just empty inside.Any advice would be appreciated.:banghead: | 
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