| Hi guys, I'm in such a mess right now and was hoping someone could give me some advice. It's a bit of a long story so please bear with me. Basically, I met this girl (from now on known as girl A) through mutual friends when I was in secondary school (5 years ago now). We got on really well, flirted loads, talked pretty much every day, etc. I eventually plucked up the courage to ask her out and she broke down in tears and said no because one of her best friends (girl B – the one who introduced me to girl A) fancied me as well and she couldn't do that to her. This really ****ing annoyed me because I KNEW girl B liked me. I could tell because she was so ****ing clingy that it got to the point where I just started ignoring her, mainly so that I wasn't leading her on or anything (in hindsight, I was pretty horrible to her if I'm honest). I also felt stupid because I should have seen that this would have been an issue when asking girl A out. It was also hugely frustrating, I'd never had a girlfriend or anyone remotely interested in me before and then two come along at the same time and get in the way of each other. Just my ****ing luck. Anyway, I got into an argument with girl A (so stupidly petty as well) and we haven't spoken since…. until not long ago. So, in these 5 years, I'd pretty much forgotten about her, I've had relationships since (albeit not very successful) and also lost my virginity. I then went on a night out about a month ago in my hometown and ended up seeing girl A for the first time in years. She ran over and hugged me, before hugging my friends too (they were also good friends with her and lost contact at the same time as me – for the same reason). We sort of said hello and then she went, as her friends were leaving the club. The conversation lasted no longer than a minute. Since then, we haven't spoken, just traded a few likes on each other's Facebook pictures and I helped her out with some advice on her work (1 comment on her Facebook status, to which she replied). The thing is, I can't ****ing stop thinking about her! It's driving me literally crazy. I'm not seeing anyone and I don't think she is either. I'm pretty confident around people but I get nervous at the thought of trying to talk to her again. So that's where you come in TSR. I just don't know how to talk to her for only the second time in about 5 years. For me, that period of time is too long for me to just "check in with her" or just "see how she is". I just don't know how to talk to someone after such a long period of time. What's so different that I couldn't have spoken to her before now? How do I get back in contact with her? I can't help but feel it will be awkward… If there's any other advice you can give me at all, it would be much appreciated. | |||
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